Tag Archive for ‘Intimacy’
Should I refuse physical relationship if I know my hubby is cheating?
During the separation he had told everyone that he does not like the assertive tone in my voice when I speak to him or my stance regarding career, which I feel he should have thought about before marriage. Please advise , in the light of Isalm, am I still to satisfy him physucally because I cannot confront him right away.
We both wanted to marry but his mother doesn’t agree because I am a revert
He said that he will keep in touch via mail which I doubt and said that he will try once more with his mom because his mom was very upset about our intimate relationship. He told me that don’t give up hope and make a lot of dua. I am still so hurt and I am going crazy without him beside me; at least to hear his voice once a day. I miss him so much and I am praying to Allah to give him back to me and cry a lot.
What is the Islamic solution to my situation? Is khula/divorce the right choice?
I have been married for 8 years and I have 2 children. The relationship between me and my husband has gone through a lot of bad times. The current situation is that for the past 8 months we have been sleeping in different bedrooms. During this time things between us have gone from bad to worse and now for the past 4 months there have been no physical relations between us. He too did not initiate anything as he was also in anger and was not interested in doing so. We had not been communicating on normal mode either. I have spoken to him some time ago that its all over from my side and that I do not wish to live with him anymore due all these prevailing conditions, as there is no point living together when we just cant stand each others’ existence in the same house.
How to convince my Christian wife to accept Islam?
I am Sunni Muslim from India. In the year 2008 April I married to Baptist Christian girl secretly in Mosque without informing our family members in presence of an Imam and my friends as witness and wakil according to the Islamic Law with the girl’s wish. From that time (previously also my wife’s mother used to force and fight with her about Christian religion why she change all those things, but she never reacted that much) after meeting with these two people she changed completely and told me that she did wrong by changing her religion and she don’t want to continue. I don’t want my children to become confused of Islam and I want my children and wife to be as Muslim and to follow the Sunnah, Ahadees, Quran as a perfect Muslim do.
I want a divorce from my wife and want to marry this other girl who I have been in relationship with.
I am in a situation which is very troubling. Eight years ago I got married to my mother’s identical twin sister’s daughter from Pakistan. For all these years I have put on an act so my mother remains happy. We are not able to have children & last year I became exhausted of living a lie. I met a girl with a beautiful heart and good intentions with whom I and she instantly had a spark and connection with. Unfortunately, she became pregnant with my twin babies & this is when I had to tell her I was still married. I left her with no option but to abort.
I cheated on my husband but didn’t tell him until a year later
I was in a relationship with a boy at the age of 17 and it went along for about 3 years until we decided to get married without telling our parents. The first 6 months of our relationship I had a problem of not being fully committed to him and I cheated by kissing 5 other guys during that time.
I got khula from court against my husband but my family is forcing me to live with him. Is my khula valid?
I got married in march 2007 to my maternal cousin. This was a forced marriage as I didn’t want to get married. But my parents emotionally blackmailed me, my husband, his mother and my mother promised me that he won’t demand any physical relation until I complete my education. I agreed on this base. I was abused sexually, physically and psychologically by my husband and my parents. I asked my husband to divorce me but he refused. Before seeking khula I spoke to my husband and told him that I cannot fulfill his sexual needs as hatred fills within me whenever I see him and all the issues between us and requested him to divorce me.
Am I in an haram relationship?
I have been with my Muslim boyfriend for 6 years now and we were having sexual relations for about 5 years. Since this discussion a year has passed and now I have reverted to Islam, which I am very happy and proud about. I know that this is obviously haram as Allah does not permit any form of relationship between the opposite of sex till marriage, and if it was down to me I would marry him in a heart beat. But here is where it gets complicated because he says that he will marry me but not until he finishes his degree and/or if I get a good job.
Am I a virgin?
I have always loved to sit in woman’s laps, I used to do so a lot with her, and she never minded that of course. Also, on the bed, I used to sleep very close to her, and e.g. when she was asleep, I would put my legs on her legs, as if I was lying in her lap and thus enjoy myself I was 11-13 in this age then. I did not know fully about sex back then, and did not touch any of her private parts or anything, but simply repeated that childhood obsession of lying in her lap while she was asleep. I have tried to overcome that habit as well. I am at a point of life, where one comes to realize that there is nothing of True Vale besides one’s relationship to his Creator.
She wants her family back but wants her freedom too. How to trust my unfaithful wife?
I have talked with my wife and she gave me a story about her being unfaithful. She told me a story that confirmed my thoughts but now she is telling me that she gave me lie that may be would satisfy my heart and brain. I think she love me but not in the way that she will sacrifice something . I hope somebody knows what to do in this situation as I have lost a lot with my children and parents. On the other hand she is willing to go to imams,and try to convince them that I am the problem and maybe she is right because when I offer a solution she says yes and then it turns to no, Is there somebody who knows how to deal with a lying woman that really wants her family back but she wants the freedom to do what she wants even if its haram.
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