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My wife was granted khula – I have some questions.

Shariah court dissolved my marriage but my wife was seen with another man uring khula process – does this not violate shariah laws? I took out several loans to pay for the wedding, would it be right for me to ask her to pay that off?

My parents will disown me if I don’t divorce my husband

My mother refused to arrange a wedding party because my husband was not from the same country and she felt it was an embarrassment… 2 years later they have told me I either divorce him or forget that they are my parents.

I am not happy with my husband and contemplating Khula

I am married for one year. i had some problem with my husband i try make up things with him and everything goes bad. i am totally confused with my situation to stay with him or not. i planned to do istakhaara to take khula or not. i saw a dream where i am shooting a tiger in my moms house.

I treated my wife badly; now she wants Khula.

I have treated my wife terribly. I have caused arguments and been violent and shouted. She tells me she is scared of me. Maybe I missed all the signs and never realised how unhappy she was with me but I truly believe we can reconcile and I know I don’t want to lose her.

Am I Islamically divorced?

I just feel I am being messed around and am not getting a clear answer from anyone. I feel as though I am just a ‘case number’ whereas my life is being turned upside down. All I want to know is that is the verbal and written divorce my husband gave me as mentioned above valid or not?

I’m so confused about my husband’s intentions, should I seek Khula?

My husband agreed to paid the mahr/dowry as soon as we would get home at the time of our nikah but he refused to paid when we got home excusing his financial position that time.is our nikah still valid as the condition isn’t fulfilled?

I want to marry my ex husband

I’m a divorced lady. Divorce is done on 11th oct 2011 by mutual understanding of both of us which is called khula divorce

I feel “brainwashed” by my wife, I am hurt and fallen apart.

I married her because I loved her and the fact everybody thought or what she showed was she was a very caring person, I still love my wife very much, despite all the things she’s done to me, she is very ignorant, arrogant, very high tempered, says stuff to hurt ones feelings and she definitely has a hard heart, it is all about her, no one else in this world, she doesn´t respect her dad yet she is always at his place…

Her husband beats her badly, she needs strength to take Khula

We need some serious advice, so she can find the strength to make the right decision and not feel weakened by the cry of her children, when ever he calls or when he msg’s her – and help her to be proactive and doing something about her Khula. We feel that she should leave him, even with four children because the children and her, do not deserve a man like that. We are trying to tell her “that think, if something had gone wrong under the fist beating. IF she become partially paralyzed … or what if she had died under that severe beating.

In-laws not returning my jewelry after divorce

I got married in 2001, I soon found that my husband was a A-class drug and alcohol addict who would often hit me. However I did not want to give up and for 6 years I tried everything to help him. During this time he stole from me and beat me alot. I was the sole breadwinner he did not work and then in ramadan 2007 one day I came back from work and he was drunk and started hitting me. I begged him to stop as I was fasting but he did not.