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Should I file for divorce or keep this marriage?

My husband left me and my 2 kids. He makes no contact and we have no relationship for almost 13 months. He doesn’t give me a penny towards expenses. He doesn’t give divorce either.

My father is destroying my life… but he says I’m the one that’s brought him shame!

My father is doing injustice to me. Why me? Is it ok for a parent to do it like this?

Betrayed by the husband – now he won’t sign khula papers either!

He has mentally, emotionally, physically and verbally tortured me and he has my expensive belongings and he is not returning them or his parents!!!

Can I seek Khula before ruksati?

There are no apparent flaws in his character, but i fear my dislike for him will make me act unjustly with him and not be able to fulfill the responsibilities of a wife.

Struggling with an unhappy marriage and considering divorce

I told him I was pregnant, and he didn’t care? He said I was using that as an excuse to manipulate him. I went through a miscarriage and was in alot of pain. When I would try to call him for support he would switch his phone off…

Confused about seeking Khulah

I have discussed all these issues with him a million times. I have tried to convince him with my loving words to warnings of leaving him, but nothing has changed him in these years. I feel that he will never change, and I will live this miserable life for ever and ever. When I discuss it with him, he simply proves that these things are only in my head and have nothing to do with reality, and that he loves me a lot and is sincere with me.

My Khula date is very near… but must I forgive him instead?

He is now apologising again that he will never hit me, provide me with a home and fulfill my rights as a wife. I am not sure if I must forgive him or not?

I got nikkahfied to my cousin but I just cannot like him in that way.

I only said yes to my parents cause he lives in America and I just couldn’t say no to my father.

My wife’s family want khula

I’ve not been nice to my wife. I’ve not been treating her nicely and hitting her too. I still love my wife of course and want her back. But, she’s not number one in the world. Most women seem to think they are!

Istekhara after Nikah, and Khula in Absence

She was of the view that after her Istekhara, there was no possibility of return. They applied for Khula, but I dont know what happened then as I did not receive all the notices or documents which I am supposed to receive. I believe that for a valid Khula process you need to go through a proper and sincere mediation and reconciliation process. This also did not happen.