Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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In love and it hurts. Will Allah answer me? And please tell me: why are cousins allowed to marry?

Over the years, my mother has had some kind of idea that I’ve liked him, but I’ve always denied it. But this year, I finally let my guard down and told her everything, even the girlfriend part. She knows literally everything. But telling her has probably been the best thing I’ve ever done. She has helped me so much and listened to me. She is very religious and always prays and reads Quran. She knows my cousin very well also and is helping me draw him in with dua. I recently started praying 5 times a day because I’ve realized that the only way to someone’s heart is through Allah

Pregnant with a Hindu but too afraid to tear my family apart

Over the past 6 months I have developed a relationship with a Hindu (he is 2 years younger than me) and I have done zina… I found out yesterday I am 6-7 weeks pregnant. I do not know what to do. I am so scared of continuing with the pregnancy due to what it will put through my family.

Christian girl in love with a Muslim boy

I know having a girlfriend/boyfriend is not permitted in Islam, but he isn’t really a very religious boy. He and his family don’t pray 5 times/day as I learned a Muslim has to, he reads the Quran just once in a while.

Will Allah Forgive My Sins? How can I let go of these feelings?

I pray to Allah all the time and I know Allah is listening, I want to be patient, I want to be worthy to be Allah’s servant, I know I have wronged I have hurt so many people and don’t want to continue, how can I get myself to stop praying for him to comeback when he’s ready for marriage, how can I accept its over, he’s told me its over and asked me to forgive him and said it wasn’t meant to be, will Allah forgive me? Will Allah mend my broken heart!?

Why the first love is an issue for guys; why it bothers us for the rest of our lives?

what i never understand is the person F1 for whom i was the first love why he never waited for me long enough and established himself when i wanted to him to do and why F2 got interested in me in the first place when he never left his First love his cousin…????????????????????

Still tired and confused, and I hate myself

I just don’t want to drag my mother or anyone else in to my problems or mistakes. I am callous, selfish, ruthless, abrupt, hypocrite, horrible, nasty, non believer person anyone will ever meet.

His parents denied me, how should I proceed? Should I talk to my parents?

2 years and 3 months ago I met a muslim brother, we instantly clicked and started a relationship we haven’t met an awful lot because he lives in a different city which I think is good as if he lived near by we would have been more tempted to sin. However we do talk on the phone every day over text on facebook etc.

Tired of my husband not praying or reciting Qu’ran

My husband alhumdulillah is a very nice man, he takes care of his family a lot. We have 3 beautiful kids mashallah. But he doesnt pray 5 times and doesn’t know how to read Quran. He never read in arabic language. I need some supplication that I can recite to make him change.

Should I divorce or not? My husband is overseas and all we do is argue!

I am in the U.S with my family, and my husband is overseas and I have been here for a month and he doesnt speak to me anymore and vice versa..but we are still married. I told him that I didn’t want to be with him anymore and that is what he wanted in the first place, but he is being stubborn about divorcing me.

Reverting to Islam, can I go against my father’s wishes?

I feel like I need Islam in my life, to formally be a part of the religion of submission to Allah’s will. But then is it ok to go against my father in order to do so? Would that be against Allah’s will if I disobeyed my father and caused him humiliation?