Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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marry someone practiscing but don’t have passion for…or marry someone non practicing ?

I’m soooo confused..I’m engaged to marry a practicing man who is a year younger than I. He’s good looking and perfect..but I don’t feel passion for him, maybe his age is the issue or that he isn’t financially established yet Allahu alim. I recently met this guy who is older and more mature, and have […]

husband cannot defend my rights in front of his family, he has no say of his own.

I am a 25 yr old girl married for 10 months. My problem is my habit of saying the truth and following principles. My husband shows care for me with his words. I show care for him with words and actions. My husband fulfils my wishes and demands, but when a matter of comparison comes […]

My controlling mother dictates what I must wear

I am living in my own home but very close to my parents after the breakdown of my marriage. I visit my parents frequently and understand the importance of listening and obeying parents…

We both want to live separate but we are worried about how his parents will react.

We want to live close by and still maintain regular contact with them, just have our own space where we can be free and develop our own relationship, all the tension has put a huge strain on our marriage and we are both constantly stressed. However we do not know how to break it to the family, if we move it will just be his mother n father alone and we will be seen as evil.

Married Muslim woman relationship with other man outside marriage

Is it true that an married Muslim woman cannot be touched by another man other than her husband? If yes, what are the possible repercussions, not dis-regarding extreme situations?

I want a divorce from my wife and want to marry this other girl who I have been in relationship with.

I am in a situation which is very troubling. Eight years ago I got married to my mother’s identical twin sister’s daughter from Pakistan. For all these years I have put on an act so my mother remains happy. We are not able to have children & last year I became exhausted of living a lie. I met a girl with a beautiful heart and good intentions with whom I and she instantly had a spark and connection with. Unfortunately, she became pregnant with my twin babies & this is when I had to tell her I was still married. I left her with no option but to abort.

I cheated on my husband but didn’t tell him until a year later

I was in a relationship with a boy at the age of 17 and it went along for about 3 years until we decided to get married without telling our parents. The first 6 months of our relationship I had a problem of not being fully committed to him and I cheated by kissing 5 other guys during that time.

I am engaged to be married but my ex-boyfriend is blackmailing me

2 years back I fell in love with a guy who wanted to marry me, we did not intend to have any romantic relationship instead wanted to get married but my family refused but we kept on talking as it was really hard for us to be apart after the attachment…

I am in love with a married man and my feelings are torn; don’t know what to do?

Four years ago a man came to work in my department. He is a good muslim, husband and father alhamdilullah. In addition, he is very charismatic, popular and excellent at his job. However, I remained true to my values and tried my best for the relationship to remain professional. I confronted him and I admit that I became terribly distressed and he tried to comfort me. The situation became impossible after that, as I think it must have been obvious to him that I feel the same way about him, although I would never say. The problem is that no matter how I try, I cannot forget this man. He continues to attempt to contact me and recently messaged me through my facebook account which I have now closed.

In love with A Muslim man who is engaged to another woman by force. Do I have a chance?

I am deeply in love with my Muslim Ex-Boyfriend. We both saw the same point of view in life. We talked about , me becoming Muslim for him in the past. But On August 3, his parents got him engaged with someone else. The same day he broke up with me saying he’s very sorry and didn’t want this to happen. He has told me he likes her but does not love her. Like the way he loves me. Will there be a chance that he will Break off the Engagement? If so how?