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Friend got pregnant while getting to know a guy for marriage, but he abandoned her

My friend got intimate with another guy and fell pregnant in the process of getting to know each for marriage. The guy asked to terminate but she couldn’t do that. He got married to his cousin back home and when his wife found out about his affair and child she left him. He hasn’t seen his baby and my friend’s life is a mess as she hasn’t told her family about all this because she lives alone in another city.

I let my cousin lay over me when I was 8 years old

I let my cousin to lie over me for 2-3 mins, no intercourse, no kisses, I was not nude either. I really was unaware that this is an evil. I was just stupid didnt even know whether this is good or bad. I later gained that this is not major zina (sexual intercourse) as I was an insane.

How often can husband and wife have sex?

How many times can a husband and wife have sex in a month?

I have sexual problems that I am afraid will affect my marriage plus I can’t cook or clean

All my life, since puberty, I never experienced any sexual desires or feelings or felt anything pleasurable in my body. I don’t know why this is. I never sought help in the past because I didn’t recognize I was different from others. Now, I went to the gynecologist since I am married and want to be close with my husband, and the gynecologist said physically everything is normal. If that is true, why don’t I feel anything sexually?

Stuck in Loveless, sexless, boring marriage- is zina an option?

I am in my 40s now and desperate for a brother or sister for my daughter. She is also so lonely like me. I cannot lower myself any more to beg him for sex to have another child and I also feel like I am going mad as I need a loving touch of a man.

About physical relations before marriage

My family engaged me with a girl. Both of us love each other. But we had physical relations two times by mistake. May Allah forgive us and both of us promised God not to repeat this thing again. I want to ask that either both of us are Halal for each other after nikkah or if she gets married with some one other not with me then will her marriage will be halal.

I ruined my life by committing zinaa and I think I was molested as a child

Both of my parents are full time working. My dad has to spend most of his time out of station and mom in the hospital, I would be left with my aunt and cousins. One day, a man came to my house when I was about 5 or 6yrs old, he came to marry my another aunt who can not speak or hear. I don’t know why I remember this, I don’t know if im hallucinating or imaginning it…but I remember it like yesterday.

Sex on the very night of the marriage or before Walimah?

I want to know whether it is compulsory to have intercourse on the night of marriage or before Walimah? I heard that if there is no intercourse between the couple before Walimah, the food of Walimah is haram for people to eat!

My father is unwilling to marry my sister to her 7 year boyfriend.

It all started about 7 years ago when my sister was in high school. My parents caught her seeing an Egyptian boy and despite the constant anger, screaming and punishment my father would impose, it did nothing. She continued to see him throughout the years and the worst possible thing happened, my parents caught her with a hotel bill in her purse. Naturally, they assumed the worst.

I conceived without sexual intercourse, now I’m guilty of hurting two men. Which should I marry?

I am 25 years old Muslim Girl, From childhood I say namaz and recite quran, I still do. I am not into bad things at all, except 4 years ago I got involved with a Guy. I had physical relations with him for one year, and then but we never had sexual intercourse, but somehow I got pregnant but then end up with an abortion. After my abortion we had proper sexual relation once.