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Very stressed and suicidal over what is the right thing to do .

I’m a 22 year old boy. I recently got into a relationship with this girl that i really liked. Around 6 months ago. I wanted to marry her and even informed my sister about her and everything. My family knows the girl since the two families are quite close. In the beginning it was just normal conversation regarding how we would get married. But then later we got really close and attached emotionally.

The definition of “difficult” IS my life and I’m going to go crazy!

I feel hopeless.. I want to die. I really really want to die. I might not make it to heaven.. But I don’t care anymore, cause I know deep down my heart that I’ve been patient all my life, I’ve been good and nothing ever been good in my life.. I feel like dying. What am I supposed to do? Ya Allah.. I’m just so close to hurting myself.. I can’t handle it. No words can explain my grief.. I’ve tried accepting this. But I can’t anymore. I CAN’T! Please help me! Please help!

I turn my hand into a gun, aim it to my head and then pretend to shoot myself

18/Female. Living in the USA. And as you can tell by my question above; I hate my life. I have family problems; I want to escape the world. I believe I’m ugly. And when ever I pass by a mirror out of habit I look at it tell myself “You’re ugly. Why are you alive? You should die.” And then I randomly turn my hand into a gun and aim it to my head and then pretend to shoot myself.

How can I regain my faith in Allah?

I have stopped praying and reading the Quran. My family often tell me to pray, but all I think is, “Where is Allah? Why won’t Allah help me? Why does Allah help other people who do so much worse, but never me?” But I want to love Allah and Islam again. I don’t know where to start. I don’t know how to begin. I want to be happy. I want to know that Allah will always be there for me.

My husband agreed to me not wearing hijab before marriage but now he is forcing me to cover.

I just can’t take the pain and hurting anymore and thinking suicidal thoughts more and more everyday… My mother is of no help because she isn’t religious at all and is always negative and asking why am I doing this. She doesn’t understand that I am trying. I can’t talk to my husband either because he is the other end pushing me. Please someone who can relate help me. I am at my wits end!

I’m in deep pain, cannot talk to anyone

I am struggling alot, i have no control of my body and my mind is telling me to suicide i know its bad and i have held very strong for now is 4 and a half years of pain and grief. I havent seen the boy for nearly 6months or have i spoken to him. Its been very harsh so harsh i cant breath anymore and my body is shaking constantly. I have severe major depression and now i am 18yrs old and i havent told my parents about my severe depression as i hide it away from them, but they have notices me shaking and heard me cry

Abused when 7 and now suicidal thoughts

salams everyone

I am 21 year old muslim girl.I was sexually abused when I was 7 years old .

No one at my home knows and I can´t even think of telling this to anyone. I at times get jealous of all the girls who are virgins.

This clearly depicts that I am no more a virgin, this has affected my studies so badly. I can´t get over the thoughts..I can´t tell this to anyone because then its me who will be blamed for everything.

Divorced while pregnant and now a single Mum in depression

I had fight with my husband, and told him that I loved him so much but I take divorce so easy. I said I want divorce. At that time I didn’t know that was pregnant so we were apart for 6 months , and then he formally divorced me while I was pregnant and married another girl.

Despairing of my life and future, in fear of losing my deen

I belong to middle class family, I am single and I am studying in university. I have problem regarding social phobia. Means I feel very hesitate and nervous in crowd and people. Because of this since my childhood I never had any relationship although I am straight, 5,5″ height and average looking and normaly build. But because I had issues in past with my family since my fathers death and since then I have been struggling.

I feel like ending my life! What should I do?

I never wanted to have sex before my marriage……!!!!!! I wanted to keep this as a gift of God for my husband!!! Now I don’t have anything to give and share!!! I hate myself!!! HOW COULD I DO SUCH MISTAKES!!! I HATE MYSELF!!! I want to die!!!