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Advice on staying in the marriage or divorcing

My husband always threatens when I mention divorce. He said I won’t get the kids and he will not pay any of my loans if I leave. I am very fearful of him as he has hit me whenever he gets very angry.

I need help with the problems in my marriage

I haven’t told him anything and it’s killing me. I can’t tell him because I’m afraid that he will hit me for looking in his phone and he also blackmails me that if i make one more mistake that he’d marry another woman.

I am feeling lost and need advice

I am heart broken and very depressed. But know that if and when I try to get out of this relationship he will make my life hell and will make me suffer.

Betrayed by the husband – now he won’t sign khula papers either!

He has mentally, emotionally, physically and verbally tortured me and he has my expensive belongings and he is not returning them or his parents!!!

What should I do about my abusive husband?

I cite reasons to myself for not leaving him that children need a father figure. But inside I know… he will never change.

Husband hit me, did i do something wrong?

My husband hit me so harshly that I got nose-bleeding and bruises over my body. I am afraid. Afraid to see him again.

My husband hates his stepdaughter

I got married to someone from Pakistan. Neither of us were happy in this marriage, he became very violent with me as did I. Then, I made the worst mistake of my life, I was seperated from him and I met someone else. I began having an affair, astagfirullah. Then my parents told me I have to give my husband another chance so I did, trying to finish my affair.

My husband uses drugs, is violent and I am scared for my own life and the life of my children. Please help.

e stays out every night; ignores me and comes back home like he isn’t doing anything wrong. We fight whenever we talk; I am trying so much to keep this marriage intact but I can’t take it any more from him. I am scared from this violent environment; my kids will be affected; I feel like he is using and abusing me. He is bullying me in many ways.

Father and brother beat me and my mother

I need help, I have visited this website numerous times to seek advice that may apply to me. However, I feel that writing to you all will be a better alternative for me. Any advice will be highly appreciated. Jazakallah. I apologize for the long post in advance..

My husband forced me to reveal my past to him

My husband and I met and fell in love. Right from the start he told me about his past: his girlfriends, how many women he had slept with as well as many other sins, and also that he was neither praying nor fasting at the moment (and he still is not). I accepted it and thought that we all do mistakes and that Allah (swt) is forgiving.