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Tag Archive for ‘Zinaa’

I feel like ending my life! What should I do?

I never wanted to have sex before my marriage……!!!!!! I wanted to keep this as a gift of God for my husband!!! Now I don’t have anything to give and share!!! I hate myself!!! HOW COULD I DO SUCH MISTAKES!!! I HATE MYSELF!!! I want to die!!!

Boyfriend demands that I have an abortion before he will marry me

He promised to marry me but without his parent knowing… and the marriage will be held in my country by real married. But I have to remove the baby first… Im worried that when I do whatever he asked me… and he might be run away and leave me… and at the end I am the one will be the loser. I told him about it, and he keep swearing by Allah name also Quran that he will do it when we didnt have haram baby in my stomach. Even I recorded his promise that his going to marry me after this.

I look like a good Muslim girl but I behave badly

let me short ma story ,,,i got married to an old man who was 65yrs, at da time i was 17yrs old,i have been with him for two years ,,,since then i changed completely,,, i started going out i mean night club but not everyday,,,wearing trousers, have hair extension,, have s** with one then five bf… i cant mention everything

I did zinaa and I feel dirty

I did zina and am very upset with myself for doing it. I feel bad, dirty, sorry for what I did. I don’t know what to do. Please Help.

Married to Avoid zinaa, now in a loveless marriage

I got married because of hating zina, I just got married to a girl I did not love before, just to save myself from zina, I had never been in love with anyone because those I could love never loved me, and those who could love me I had no love for.

Expecting a child with a non-Muslim woman, should I marry her?

I am a Muslim man living in the United States of America. I was born and raised Muslim. Like many other unfortunate Muslim brothers here, I fell for the worldly temptations and allowed the shaytan to lead me astray. I am currently expecting a child with a Non-Muslim woman. We are not married. She is a devout Christian woman. Is it permissible for me to marry her? Or do I leave her and the child alone?

17, Muslim and I may be pregnant but how will my parents view it?

i have a boyfriend who is bengali 19 and muslim. we have been together for 7 months and have become very intimate. i love him alot and we have plans on getting married in a couple of years…. i know i shouldn’t be having sexual relations with him, but to be honest it really literally just happens. now i may be pregnant… my boyfriend says i should have an abortion.

Broken hearted over my breakup from a Muslim boy, thinking of suicide

I’m just emotionless, he took everything I believed in from me. And I knew that it was going to happen, but I didnt care enough to stop while it was. My decision is that, I dont wanna live anymore. And I’m writing this for my family to understand why I did what I’m about to do, when they find me, they will read this first, then I want them to go on my blog and read what I wrote there. But before I do what I so badly want to do, I want an answer, another option, just something to give me faith. If there is no such thing you can offer me through your knowledge of islam, I really do not see another solution. You have no idea how I feel, used, dirty, hopless, torn, …

Cheating and Distant Husband to take 2nd Wife!

We have been married for over 10 years and due to fertility issues we have been unable to conceive. Our marriage has hit rock bottom, although we both live in the same house we sleep seperately. I found out that he has had a number of affairs/one night stands and in one case actually got someone pregnant! I have recently found out that my Husband is due to leave the country and go back and take a 2nd wife.

We committed zinaa, can we still get married?

I am in love with this guy that is different from my culture but he’s still Muslim. And I did zina with him.

I am 20 years old and I love him. We do want to get married but I am scared to tell my parents about him because they are very strict about marrying other than our culture. I don’t agree and I feel it should not a be problem as long he is Muslim. He is ready, he’s educated and he’s a really good man. He’s 13 years older than me and we’ve been together a year and 3 months.

My question is, what can I do after I did zinaa?