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How can I repent and forget about my past relationship?

Tell me how to do real tawbah? I am always thinking that am I doing wrong with my future husband? If he gets to know what is going to happen? I am getting weaker and weaker day by day.

How shall my wife and I forget our past sins?

Me and my wife committed zina before got married. We have been married for 4 years now but at times have noticed that our marriage is not strong due to the zina we committed before our marriage…

I let a man use me and ditch me, and now I am full of regret.

I told him he has used me and then ditched me,and now he was satisfied. He said yes, he used me and now he is satisfied. That made me feel even worse. Since then, I have lost my self-esteem and feel very sad, I’m so depressed and feel used and dirty.

Is any form of sexual activity the same as committing zinaa?

I am currently in a relationship of 1 and a half years and although I am still a virgin I have been sexual with my partner..

I’m pregnant by a non-Muslim and considering abortion

I have a boyfriend and now i am pregnant but he is not Muslim. I have been thinking about abortion but it’s is a very hard decision

Committed zinaa with my boyfriend and abortion; now he wants to separate

I am 23 years old and a sunni muslim girl. My boyfriend said me he loved me. i expressed my desire to marry him but he said he needs time to decide. In dis time duration we commited zina of where i became pregnant and i aborted my child of 7weeks on our mutual decision.

Since he left me I don’t eat and I cry all the time

i really dont think i can marry anyone else anymore .. for me i already accepted him as my husband and still i cannot believe that he did this to me… i still thinks he will come back one day as he talked to me damn rudely…

My fiance cheated on me; should i marry him?

I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now and we got engaged at the end of last year. I found out 5/6 months ago that he had cheated on me with a non-Muslim who then wouldn’t leave him alone and statrted playing games with him. My mum had agreed for me to marry him initially however now disagrees with this. She has said on many occasions she has had signs even in her sleep that this guy is not right for me and wants me to just move on from him. His parents have also from day 1 tried picking at things and constantly trying to lecture me on what to do and I feel that this will happen more if I was to get married to him. I am so confused as I don’t know what to do?

I cheated on my husband but didn’t tell him until a year later

I was in a relationship with a boy at the age of 17 and it went along for about 3 years until we decided to get married without telling our parents. The first 6 months of our relationship I had a problem of not being fully committed to him and I cheated by kissing 5 other guys during that time.

My husband cheated on me but I don’t know how to deal with this situation. What are my options?

A week ago I walked through the doors of my home to find my husband in bed with another woman. Apparently she had no idea that he was married, and I know this because I saw the messages that he sent to her. He said he has made Tawbah but I am unsure of his sincerity. He seems to be genuine, but this is not the first incident that we have had; this is just the first time that he had gotten caught in the act. I asked for his reasoning for being defensive but he didn’t reply. All he keeps saying is; I am sorry. I am so confused as to what to do.