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Betrayed by the husband – now he won’t sign khula papers either!

He has mentally, emotionally, physically and verbally tortured me and he has my expensive belongings and he is not returning them or his parents!!!

Helpless and Emotionally Abused by My Mother

I am seriously alone and I am scared and I am helpless. How do I continue to live here? As I have gotten older the abuse has gotten harder to endure.

Forgiveness for misbehaving with parents

A few weeks ago my mom came screaming at me and threatening to hit me. I pushed her away with the intention of hurting her. When she lies, I feel furious and I condemn her in a loud voice. I know this is all wrong. In the moment of anger, I say harsh things, and later I feel horribly guilty and regretful.

A future wife’s bad history

I have assumed she was raped by her father… Does this type of bad past have to be told to a future husband?

What should I do about my abusive husband?

I cite reasons to myself for not leaving him that children need a father figure. But inside I know… he will never change.

My sister being mentally tortured by her husband

Among us four siblings, my sister used to be the liveliest of all; beloved of parents and grandparents alike. She is now on depression medication because of him.

Abusive father is ruining our lives

Can I kill him? Is it wrong to pray to Allah to take him away from us, to give him death? Can I expose him?

15 and forced to marry a 60 year old man

I am fifteen and my father made me marry a Lebanese man who is in his 60s. He forces himself on me every night, against my will.

Forced marriage – please help

She said she will send me to Bangladesh and will force me to marry him because she wont be able to face anyone if i dont. I tried reaching out to everyone but noone seems to help even my family member i just get beaten up.

Abused By Husband’s Family

I feel like I no longer have my husband’s support. I feel that she is controlling us, and me. If I say something about it, I am wrong. I feel so unhappy. If he is going to let her dictate every aspect of my life, then I don’t want to stay with him anymore. I can’t live my life this way. He feels like I don’t want my son to have a relationship with his grandparents, which isn’t farther from the truth. I don’t have a problem with them, I have a problem with being disrespected and controlled.