Tag Archive for ‘abuse’

Forgiving my father
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, While praying taraweeh the other night a question brought fear into my heart. It has been a year since I’ve spoken to my father. He is in jail for raping my siblings. I understand in islam you have to be nice to your parents no matter what, so my […]

Living with abusive mother for 25 years
As-Salamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatuallahu Wa Barakatuh, For the past 25 years I’ve been living in a household that was emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive. My mother -May Allah SWT reward her- has been through a lot, but with that being said she has done a lot to me that damaged me pretty bad. I was always […]

Paranoid and abusive husband
He has hit me in rage, given me a black eye, put my head through a glass pane (I had to get stitches), and hit me when I was pregnant. He says I pushed him to the limit each time because I wouldn’t let him walk away. I admit my fault is I stand in his way during an argument, because I’m sick to death of living my life like this and want answers to why he does this to me.

My mother’s abuse is breaking me down
These recent events, along with many years of verbal, mental, and harsh physical abuse are causing a breakdown within myself. I broke last during one of my mother’s rants, and unintentionally swore at her after she hit me. I did not mean to, and repented that night in hopes of Allah’s forgiveness.

Abusive husband and in-laws… What should I do?
My husband said he will snatch our child from me, that I would kill it or make it like myself. My mother-in-law said I was psycho-case and not able to look after my kid…. He slapped me and when I started crying loudly, started throttling me.

Why are my ex and his family still tormenting me?
He messaged me “you slept with me and all that so I want to pay you for that, because I don’t sleep with girls without paying! You’re a whore girl.”

I’m scared of what I’m doing – please help me
This new kind of sickness has infected me… And that is the outburst of my sexual desires on the nearest female I see. And that just so happens to be my little sister…

Husband hit me, did i do something wrong?
My husband hit me so harshly that I got nose-bleeding and bruises over my body. I am afraid. Afraid to see him again.

I am mentally drained from the cheating and beating
But he turns violent everytime I speak to him about separation, as he uses the kids to threaten me. He has not been a good father, yet he always tells me to leave if I want and give the kids to him. He has said so much to hurt me. My kids always witness me getting beaten. I wonder what impact will this lead to. I stayed all these years with the hope that he will change for the better, but I don’t know if I waited too long.