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My brother is going to run away due to abusive behaviour of my father; please help

My father has been very emotionally abusive towards my brother. He is blamed for anything and everything, for example the TV not working, the university not responding to his application, and the weather not turning out as the forecast said it would. A few times, my brother threatened to run away when he was angry, and he would have if my mother didn’t stop him. My mother was able to get my brother to wait until morning before leaving, and he did, and today he keeps trying to run away. I’m afraid that he won’t listen to my mother anymore.

my third abusive husband wants to get another wife

salam, if u remember i told my story here before..i met my 3rd husband, and i thought because he have beard and does his prayer,he is a good muslim man..at first he is very kind towards me and to my kids..we just married 6 months ago and now i am pregnant with his child.i am 20 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child alhamdulillah.

Abused when 7 and now suicidal thoughts

salams everyone

I am 21 year old muslim girl.I was sexually abused when I was 7 years old .

No one at my home knows and I can´t even think of telling this to anyone. I at times get jealous of all the girls who are virgins.

This clearly depicts that I am no more a virgin, this has affected my studies so badly. I can´t get over the thoughts..I can´t tell this to anyone because then its me who will be blamed for everything.

My husband wants to divorce me because I won’t leave my sister

I’m suffering from Mental illness and Eating disorder. Since im marrid with him his problem is my sis who lives few miles away. She doesn’t follow Islam. But when i was in need of help she was there for me who stopped her work when i was in the hospital.

Emotional and verbal abuse has left me depressed, exhausted, and thinking of committing suicide.

I was born in the US and married to an Algerian for 8 years.
I became Muslim about 7 years ago, but I have a lot of trouble learning Arabic and memorizing Quran. This has become a hurdle in my marriage because my husband feels that he shouldn’t have to remind me to read Quran and fast (which I do with GREAT difficulty because of anemia.) We are also having a big problem with my role as wife and mother….

I was sexually molested by my older cousin and I don’t know what to do

The night my older cousin molested me was a really long time ago. I was 12, he was 23, I was immature and saw him in the same light as i saw my own brother who was the same age -I was still a kid (fasting was not wajib on me yet).

I can’t let go of my past mistakes

I feel like I’m being punished by Allah because of all my sins. I’m almost 30yrs old, not married and have no life. When I was 7yrs old I was sexually abused several times by a family friend. I’ve never told anyone about this.

He molested her for years and now he demands respect from her

Ever since she was four, her brother would touch her private areas. When she was four, he would tell her not to tell anyone, and she listened because she had trusted her brother. Because she grew up having this done to her by her own brother, and because she did not yet know it was wrong of him to do that, she lived quietly having that done to her.

Married at 11 to a 21 year old, who left me when I was 18

Salam. It is really hard for me to explain what has happened in my life since the age of 11, as I have never explained to anyone what I have been through before, but for you brothers and sisters giving me Islamic advice you need to understand the complexities of what i have experienced in my life from a young age. At the age of 11 when I was finishing primary school, my father brought a man into the house who was a Christian at the age of 21. My dad loves me more than anything in life, however during this introduction this man proclaimed that he had fallen in love with me and wanted to marry me regardless of my age, race and culture, as I am half Pakistani.

I ruined my life by committing zinaa and I think I was molested as a child

Both of my parents are full time working. My dad has to spend most of his time out of station and mom in the hospital, I would be left with my aunt and cousins. One day, a man came to my house when I was about 5 or 6yrs old, he came to marry my another aunt who can not speak or hear. I don’t know why I remember this, I don’t know if im hallucinating or imaginning it…but I remember it like yesterday.