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We want to change my child’s Last Name

I remarried when my son was 2 years old. His biological father has been absent since then. No contact no support..

My life is a mess & I need someone to guide me to repent, please don´t judge me

Could you please help I got married to my pakistani cousin as parents made me feel guilty but didnt force me just made me feel so guilty I said yes. I had a boyfriend here in england so when I came back from pakistan after getting married I started to be with my boyfriend here again.

Will I ever find a man who will love me and my child?

I’ve been divorced and basically..I feel ever so lonely. I have a daughter and my family alhamdulillah and without them, I dont want to imagine life and thumma alhamdulillah that I have them..and its certainly not that I want my daughters father back in my life, no way. But yet I have this loneliness…sometimes im just dying to have that someone special listen and love me. I feel such temptations to have someone of the opposite gender

Got engaged to a 14 year old girl, but she’s not pretty

I was told by my family to chose girl and get married soon as i am 29 almost. One of my relative referred a girl whose age is just 14.5 years. I got opportunity to see her for just 3-4 seconds. i liked her and decided to get engaged. My engagement was done just after few days.

Concerned about my daughter’s conversion

Last year my teenage daughter met this man while we were living in Hong Kong. He is from India. He lied about being a bit older than her. He’s actually 28 and married (he married a 14 year old child 5 years ago in Kolkata).

I let my cousin lay over me when I was 8 years old

I let my cousin to lie over me for 2-3 mins, no intercourse, no kisses, I was not nude either. I really was unaware that this is an evil. I was just stupid didnt even know whether this is good or bad. I later gained that this is not major zina (sexual intercourse) as I was an insane.

Need advice in disciplining my 11 year old daughter

My 11 year old daughter is a wonderful kid. But this past week she has stunned me by lying about school detention and today I found my expensive perfume was missing. I went to the school and asked her about it, and she admitted to me that she took it and gave it to her friend. I was so disappointed and heart broken that she has done these decieving things.

Can a divorced woman marry without her parents knowing?

I am in love with a man. We have been friends for 10years. We live in 2 different countries and have kept in touch via emails and calls. We are both Muslim alhamdulilah and have the same background. But he has a child from his previous marriage, and because of this my father will never approve.

My child is not responding to meds, he needs to gain weight

My son is 4 years old . But he is very thin and not gaining height also. I have tried everything, all medical, tonics all are in vain .

My husband put me into debt, had a child with me and then left

I am Macedonian Christian married to a Lebanese Shia Muslim. We both used to work in Middle East which is where we met and got married. My husband resigned from his job on the day we signed the marriage contract. He could not leave the country as the company where he worked held him responsible for a missing $22,000. He said that he can not ask his parents or sister or brothers for help as they will be angry at him.