Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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I want a change in culture rather than marrying into my own culture

I feel lyk my family’s forcing me to stick with same and im not happy with it, its like they give me no options apart form sticking to gujratis and I don’t want to be with my own kind in islam its good to mix around u learn new things

His Pakistani parents won’t allow him to marry me!

I’m a 19 years old bengali girl, who fell for a pakistani guy M (sorry i don’t want to mention any names) who’s turning 22 soon. I am certainly madly in love with him, and he is too with me. Anyways he became part of my life, roughly I used to spend 8-9 hours talking to him. I was so used to having him around and being there for me. I can’t thank him enough for that.

I have to walk behind my husband

Hi, I do not know where to start from. This is the first time i have ever joined any sort of online forum for advice but it’s because I have nobody and I seriously am going mad and need to speak to someone. I’m 31 ys old, growing up I had the best upbringing went to uni, had a job for the last 8 years as a teacher and like every other girl was waiting for a nice guy to get to know and marry.

I have a big dilemma of the Heart

Well, what to do when you miss someone who’s your non-mahram, and your parents won’t let you marry him? I know it’s a sin to miss someone (isn’t it?) I tried so hard to block thoughts concerning him, but everyday I miss him.. I am a good Muslimah (enshallah), I pray, read Quran and it’s meanings. I prayed a lot to Allah to let me marry him, I prayed istikharah, but I feel it’s not the right time..

I want to marry a practising man

I am 25yrs old born Muslim and nearly finished with my post graduate studies. It has always been very important to my parents that I have a successful career as well as practicing my religion which has been stressful at times to say the least. My mother has always been very practicing. However, I should add that we are a South Asian family therefore even though for most we would be considered ‘liberal’, my parents are still very much influenced by culture.

My cousin is indulged in the haram lifestyle

I am writing on behalf of an extended family member of mine. My aunt who resides in the west has a son who is 15 years old and is not leading an Islamic life at all. He has been brought up in a non-Muslim neighbourhood and has only non-Muslim friends. He is hardly aware of our deen and is really leading astray.

Marrying a Convert: Not Approved by Parents

Asalam walikoum,  I am going through a major dilemma and would like some Islamic guidance. I would like to get engaged and married to a Muslim convert who I have known from work. He was an ex-Christian but Alhamdoullah Allah has guided him to the right path. He is a practicing Muslim and has the character and dedication every […]

is there a problem with Pakistani and Bengali getting married (both Muslim)

I am 21, lived in London all my life and from a Muslim society. I’ve never been in a relationship, I have been on one date with 1 guy in my life (for my father wish) but I wasn’t interested so I didn’t take it further…

Parents won’t let me marry a Pakistani woman

I’m facing this problem right now, I’ve met this very decent loving and caring lady, she’s British Pakistani. and I am an Arab from Qatar. We are both british citizens. We have not done anything wrong or met alone or anything dodgy! I’m just very interested in her and have fallen in love.

Family preventing marriage due to class

I am guy from Pakistan. I met a girl and fell in love with her. We start talking to each other on the phone and met secretly few times. After 3 months I realised that it’s haram to have relationship with a women so I decided to marry her.