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I want out of this marriage as my husband’s condition hasn’t improved even after two and a half years.

I came to know about his mental illness(suffering from OCD ) only after the marriage which his parents had hidden from me. I was not able to tolerate it as the illness makes him do things very late and sometimes he speaks to himself ,takes hours to finish his prayers and moreover we are not compatible by a percent. We had many fights; seeked psychiatric help to cure him and save the marriage but now after 2 and half years; he is still the same and now I don’t want to continue as I am losing my own mental stability due to the stress he is causing me; can I go for divorce? we have a 1 n half year old son and he is my only concern now and my husband pleads me not to go away.

I have converted to Islam but my boyfriend is delaying marriage as he is convincing his family to marry me.

My boyfriend was guiding me to Islam and it took so long time(nearly 2 yrs to understand the beauty of islam) and then I became Muslim. We don’t work in same place any longer. He is either not willing to come out or he is getting scared to spend time with me. I understand that now he is staying with his family and it won’t be the same as earlier. I feel I have been rejected by him. I m ready to do anything to convince his family but they are not ready to accept me.

I am confused about this proposal that my parents have chosen for me and don’t know what to do?

I am a muslim female. My parents arranged for me to marry. At that time, I thought ok let’s go for it but after getting to know him I don’t really like him. I told my family but they are bothered about the shame on the family and community and still want me to go ahead with it but say they will not force me. I am really depressed as I don’t know what to do? I can’t think; I can’t sleep; I can’t even tell anyone else. I did isthikhara but didn’t get any result; as far as I am aware he got a positive result. Can anyone please help me why am I feeling like this?

Should he cut off ties with his childhood hurtful friends for me?

Unfortunately, Foogle and his friends were suspicious that Frodo had a love interest and asked him if he was talking to me. He denied it every time. Eventually they found out in July that I was speaking to Frodo through hacking his MSN chats (with me) and keylogging his Facebook login and email. When my sister pretended to be me, his friend swore at me and said “don’t go around posting my address you b****.” They started saying rubbish like “What the f*** do you know about the Quran” and talking rudely about circumcision etc my brother said they said much more WORSE things and he has been very concerned about the type of person Frodo could be if his friends could behave like this.

Should I continue praying for the man I love to marry me or should I move on?

I wanted to marry a man from a different background and school of thought to my own; due to his past and cultural differences my family rejected him. When my father eventually came round he decided to do istikarah and informed me that he was no longer willing to marry me because of my father and small differences we had in the past. I’m in a bit of a limbo because on one hand I should accept his decision and move on but on the other I love him so and can’t move on he’s such a beautiful person mashallah. I sometimes don’t know whether I am right or wrong? Should I accept Allah’s decree and move on and accept the past is over or should I pray for our marriage?

My father cheats on my mother and he is addicted to pornography as well

My father has been unfaithful to my mother for a number of times. Every time he did it, he always asked for forgiveness and promised to never do it again. My brother made me promise not to disclose this to our mother as he was worried that our family would fall apart.

I lost the love of my life after I hurt him.

I don’t know where to begin so this might be a little unorganized. I have been in love with someone for over 2 years now. I met him through one of my friends. We got closer slowly and i began to like him but it was nothing serious, we talked all the time for a few months then we stopped talking for no reason for around 4 months..

Father and brother beat me and my mother

I need help, I have visited this website numerous times to seek advice that may apply to me. However, I feel that writing to you all will be a better alternative for me. Any advice will be highly appreciated. Jazakallah. I apologize for the long post in advance..

I am confused and depressed, will my baby go to Jannah?

Then we have along relationship to get to know each other then again he proposed to me that time finished my coursed in Al Dawah Center so i decided to marry him.But i dont know if my marriage is halal …

I still love my online ex boyfriend

I met up someone online from Pakistan about 2 years ago and we became lovers soon after. We were so in love with each other that we stayed our chat applications tuned 24 hours.