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Husband is extremely verbally abusive, is it my fault?

I have tried to speak with him in calmer times to explain that his behaviour of getting angry over minuscule things then blaming me for his vile language is a classic example of verbal and emotional abuse, and suggested we look into counselling or advice from any Imam, Sheikh, scholar etc that he feels comfortable to speak with, but he refuses.

My husband use this frequently “myri taraf say tum farig ho”

my husband use this sentence frequently: “myri taraf say tum farig ho” – whenever he is in bad mood or when we fight on any topic.

I married, had an abortion, and got divorced

i got pregnant i don’t know what happened I found myself thinking of getting an abortion. to which I did SubhannAllah. how it happened I can’t recall.. afterwards we divorced

If I ask my husband to separate 3 times is it khula?

If I ask my husband to separate 3 times is it considered khula? I actually don’t want to divorce him anymore. This happened about 4 years ago and we would like to reconcile.

My father sexually abused me and ruined my life

I realized that I would never be able to have contact with a man, since I cringed at every touch. My father ruined everything for me, and I was really disgusted. I just faked it, since I could not and was not allowed to tell my husband what happened in my past (My mom insisted on it, she said that if that came out me, my father would be viewed a certain way by people).

Is he worth staying married to?

What she should do: divorce, or live with that person, who’s involved in all kinds of sin? He cheats on her and he’s talking to a lot of other girls and doesn’t care if she feels alone. He just play games and minds his business. He doesn’t care about anything.

My husband does not pray or read Quran

i married a moslem man who seldom to pray and not interested to learn reading al quran.

My husband divorced me and after 4 days married my sister

After a week he texts me saying his sorry and he would like me and his kids back. Im too confused on what to do.

Divorce or what? I am suffering every day.

I dont have love for my wife mainly because she is chubby/fat and she has almost no sex drive.

Is Allah upset with me for some reason I don’t know?

Although I live a good lifestyle due to inheritance from family. But I don’t have a job. No success in anything I do. Lack of desire for anything.