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A forced arranged marriage

Should I sacrifice my happiness and marry my cousin? For my parents happiness…?

Emotionally blackmailed into marrying a guy I don’t want to marry

My parents want me to get married, which is fine, but my mum is adamant to give me to her sister’s son, which I don’t want… She doesn’t seem to care about my feelings and about my consent. To her emotional blackmail does not constitute forced marriage…

Should I marry my cousin? Who’s not at all compatible and neither a nice person?

He went back to Pakistan and started again his life with Guns and Pistols… I deserve much better person than him and even my mother knows that, than how can she expect me to marry him?

I’m engaged but want to marry someone else

For my parents I got agreed… Now I found a person who likes me and really respect me… now what can I do?

I don’t want them to do istikhara

My family is not allowing me to do istikhara and are doing it themselves. If results of istikhara are positive, I will have to say yes, even though I don’t want to.

Should I marry someone I am not attracted to, just because he is good in his deen?

My mother started to tell me if i rejected his proposal without giving him a chance that i would be cursed by Allah…

Forced marriage – please help

She said she will send me to Bangladesh and will force me to marry him because she wont be able to face anyone if i dont. I tried reaching out to everyone but noone seems to help even my family member i just get beaten up.

Do I have to marry him?

The guy’s mom handed her the Quran/Yaseen pleading her to accept the proposal and my mom TOOK it, thinking it is a must for one to give an individual something that they’ve asked for if they’ve requested it by giving you the Quran.

I want to break up with my boyfriend but I’m scared to do it

I’m scared to demand a break up directly, because once he had a suicide attempt.

I don’t like him but my parents are forcing me to marry him

I said YES in haste as I was too attracted to his good family status and all that but after few days I realized, it’s wrong. This person has done wrong to me and I am not willing to sacrifice anything for him.