Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Family dysfunction led to my Borderline Personality Disorder

After a history of dysfunctional family and abuse in that environment, I realized that I likely have Borderline Personality Disorder. I am ashamed of this and furthermore do not have a well-paying, consistent job that would allow me to leave the family environment that is always in crisis.

Family dysfunction has resulted in a scarcity of suitable marriage proposals

My father married thrice, which has made my goal of finding a suitable spouse extremely difficult. We have no connections, no money. I have simply not been lucky in matters of love.

I don’t have a Wali and my mother is haunted by Jinns

We want to get nikkah without telling our parents. And when he has a career after his degree), then we would approach our parents for a proper marriage.

Dysfunctional Family: No one acts responsibly

I come from a middle income household, a very loving family but the problem is that no one acts responsibly in my family so much so that their recklessness have the to potential to put us all out in the street.

Stuck in a disruptive marriage and need Islamic advice

I have long story to tell and ask Islamically if I am doing the right thing by staying in this marriage just for financial reasons and for the sake of keeping the family together…

Boy’s father disagrees to our marriage

Is it right to listen to a man that has always been brutal to the women around him? He destroyed his first wife’s life, and she almost committed suicide twice. My boyfriend’s father uses religion as an excuse to break families- including his own. He has even brainwashed the older brother who is on drugs to talk ill about me. My boyfriend told me yet again that he has to sacrifice for his father, and he will.

I cannot take this abuse, so is it haraam to move out?

I want to leave my house. I’ll be 18 in a few months. I can’t stand my family anymore. I’m a girl and I know I shouldn’t live alone but I can’t take it anymore. I’ve been depressed for as long as I can remember. My father has been abusing me for as long as I can remember. I’ve been through all types of abuse. My mother would try and protect me but she’s a sick woman. She’s has high blood pressure and Diabetes. I know it’s tough on her since my dad tortured her for 20 long years.