Tag Archive for ‘Family’
Wife wants to move out
Hello, I have been married for 2 years. It has been great with me living with my parents, sisters and everyone has a great relationship. My sisters adore my wife and so do my parents. Also the chores in the house are not the sole responsibility of my wife like in traditional Pakistani families. Basically she has a good life here and not strained or any hardships. However she does not include herself with the family, mainly my parents and is always in our room for majority of the day, only coming down to eat and watch tv after my parents have gone upstairs.
My parents hate Islam but I want to convert and marry
5 months ago, I met a Muslim man. The problem is that my parents hate everything related to Islam (they are very pious Christians) and since they knew that I was interested in Islam, my parents are very sad and my father even got health problems because of it.
His parents heard some wrong info about me and rejected me
I am a widow for the past 4 and a half years and have 2 children. 8 months ago I met a good muslim guy in my area and we took a liking to each other. He’s a Hafiz so he’d tell me stories about the prophet and teach me things from the Quran. But his family heard some false rumors about me.
My world fell apart after a negative Istikhara
I had been engaged to the love of my life for two years. Everything was going well and we were about to get married in 3 months. All of a sudden some really minor issues came up and the engagement was broken by the boys’ side over a phone call. In a couple of days they realized that was wrong and did istikhara. He got a dream tht no-one could interpret. Then his mother did it for a day and no dream, then they asked a maulvi to do it. The maulvi asked our names and the names of our parents and gave the answer about a day later that its negative.
Difficulties in having a straightfoward nikah because of fear of my family
I am wishing to get married this year to my fiancé inshallah, who does not live in the same country as me and is of different nationality. We are hoping to start a life together, and for this to happen we must be married as is dutiful to Allah. However, my own family situation makes it difficult to publicise this and gain the permission of my relatives.
In love but I have doubts in my heart
I’m in love with someone…want to marry him, but family does not like him, I like him, but a doubt has developed in my heart saying should i go for that marriage or not.. is it suitable 4 me?
His family gave me hope and have now rejected my proposal.
I really need some advice on what to do. There is this guy that i want to marry and he wants to marry me also. We know each other’s families. We’re not having a relationship at all. He has told his family he wants to marry me and after learning that he wants to marry me I’ve told my family that I also want to marry him.
Can I marry her?
We are six in my family including my Dad and Mum making it eight. I am the First Son of my Dad and Fourth child in my family, there is three girls. Ahead of me and two boys after me, making it six.
Abusive husband wants to move me away from my support network
When we moved he began to insult me and my family. He began to disrespect me and put me down. He used to verbally abuse me. As it was a new place I had no one to confide in and I kept the comments about me to myself. He would say to me ‘you should listen to me even if I am wrong. If I say to you to jump off the building you should say yes’.
My husband makes me sick, what should I do?
What should I do? I don’t want to stay unhappy forever as it is slowly lowering my iman and my love for Islam as in the beginning I saw a beautiful well balanced religion, but now he makes me think badly sometimes…
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