In love but I have doubts in my heart
Doubt
I'm in love with someone...want to marry him, but family does not like him, I like him, but dil mai shak sa paida ho gaya hai k
should i go for that marriage or not..
is it suitable 4 me?
Editors Translation of the part in Urdu: 'A doubt has developed in my heart'
- sidraah
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As-salamu alaykum sidraah,
I don't feel that we have enough information to offer advice here. Why does your family not like the man? Are their reasons valid? And what is the cause of your doubt?
What is the man's character? Is he capable of supporting you?
How about you, are you judging according to Islamic criteria?
Without knowing the answers to these questions, I would say this: If the young man has good Islamic character, and he is a kind and caring person, and he is capable of supporting you, then he is probably a good match Insha'Allah. If your family's objections are based on irrelevant factors such as race, nationality, etc, then try to convince them in the best way to change their minds.
However, if the man's character is in doubt, and your family's objections have merit, then it's best to pass on this one.
And Allah knows best.
Wael
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assalamalaikum dear sis
coz we have no information about the person i cant advice u its better u do istikhara and find out is he the gud one to get married