Marriage 
Drunken husband having an affair, I have no money to leave(4)
January 14, 2020
I am married 10 years to a man having an illegal affair with a Christian nurse working in Dubai. He is also a chain drunk. He spends all his money for her happiness.
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My husband is not emotionally fulfilling
We can spend hours on end together both on our phones, and I would prefer to be browsing online as our real life conversations are not of much depth.
I don’t have a Wali and my mother is haunted by Jinns
We want to get nikkah without telling our parents. And when he has a career after his degree), then we would approach our parents for a proper marriage.
Is this a sign from Allah that we shouldn’t marry?
Should I take my mother’s hesitance and disapproval as a sign from Allah and the answer to my Istikhara?