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We have just a few days left before his engagement…

Chose mum over the girl of my dreams

I know islamically that parents know best etc and that jannah lies beneath the feet of your mother which is why I felt I had to as she wasn’t happy. I still love this girl however and I don’t know how to get over her.

female interested in male, instead of other way around

I’m 16 and I’m interested in this man who is always in the masjid praying, reading Quran, etc. Other than that I don’t know him, and only talk to him when I’m giving salaams etc. He seems like a really nice person, and I would like to know if he is interested in me, too. I […]

I try to please my boyfriend in everything, but he doesnt give me the same attention

I know he loves me alot, he is struggling hard to give us a better future, but i feel like i’ve placed him in the wrong block. To me he is the most important person in my life, with every single thing i do, i try to please him, i try to avoid hurting him, i try to avoid all that which can make him upset or angry and all this is not because I’m afraid of him, it’s because I love him to death.

The boy I love lost his virginity to someone else

Salaam. I’ve just joined this site and I was wondering if I could get any advice. I’m 17 years old and my best friend who is a male is a 2 years older than me. We have a good friendship – no physical contact. We both wish to marry INSHALLAH in the coming years when we are of suitable age. I’ve known him for 1 1/2 years, and we mean a lot to each other.

Very stressed and suicidal over what is the right thing to do .

I’m a 22 year old boy. I recently got into a relationship with this girl that i really liked. Around 6 months ago. I wanted to marry her and even informed my sister about her and everything. My family knows the girl since the two families are quite close. In the beginning it was just normal conversation regarding how we would get married. But then later we got really close and attached emotionally.

Can I marry without my parents’ consent?

I am an 18 year old revert of 3 years and I have met a brother that I would like to marry in sha Allah. He has asked them about marriage and they have refused, telling me to complete my university degree, begin a career and then they will consider it.

I feel like I’ve lost everything and I don’t know what to do.

I don’t know where to start, but I just need some advice. What to do if your parent’s won’t accept the guy that you want to marry because of different race, culture? But we’re both muslims, shouldn’t that be the most important thing? To be fair my mum did talk to him, but it still doesn’t work. I’m tired of praying it will work out, I left everything in Allah’s hands but ya Allah if he’s not the one for me, why is it impossible to stop thinking of him?

How should I separate haram from halal in my situation?

I am a single mum of two trying to get back on my feet after separating from my husband last year for many reasons. I am currently going through my divorce, english one and had said to myself that never again would I get into another wedlock.

I am in love with a couple on TV!

I’m a 16 year old, Muslim, girl, and I have a terrible addiction to masturbation. I began when I was about 11; through the years this sin had progressed and gotten more frequent and ‘worse’.