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Was it continuous zina??

What should I do to overcome this and be able to look at myself in the mirror. I feel ashamed and sinful and not worthy of even enough repentance, forgiveness at bay.

Did I hurt my ex-fiance, his family, and especially my father?

How can I get rid of that feeling that I hurt a lot of people, do you think Allah will punish me for this?

Helpless to control my sexual urges… Please help?

Sexual feelings drives me crazy. I just can not control myself.

I’m not sure if it was zina or not, but I feel so guilty and bad

He kissed me and even touched me forcefully. I asked him to stop. I want to repent to Allah but the problem is whenever I repent I do something bad again.

Should I marry for status or love?

He is not at all good looking, and everyone says that I deserve better than him. I love him, but I really can’t tolerate his family. They don’t have any standards at all, and that’s why I’m taking back my steps and not fighting for him. I don’t wanna marry some pious man, because I don’t wanna do injustice to him. I may find a guy who’s my type and who has committed sins like mine, but guys don’t accept and can’t bear that their wives are already not a virgin. So I think I cant lead a normal, peaceful life.

I had to swear on the Quran, but keeping the oath will hurt my mother.

I never wanted to take an oath on Quran as it is very serious. But I had to as there was no choice. I cannot say no to him… but I cannot hurt my mother.

Committed Zina with the boy who insulted and abandoned me

So one day i left him because if i were still with him i would be committing great sins. He became miserable and at the end he insulted and abused me and hurt me a lot. I don’t care about the insult but i m scared that he was already far away from ALLAH.

Feeling guilt and anxious over what will happen

In the past I’ve done something wrong which is mastur*****. I’ve really repented and I did taubah already. I promise to Allah that I will never ever do this shameful act anymore. The thing is, even though I’m trying to move on, I’m somehow very restless about this. I feel so ashamed of myself.

Self-hate, panic attacks and frustration; my life is not worth living

Guilt, feeling everything was because of me, Why couldn’t I stop him? Why? Why didn’t I talk to anybody about it? And why couldn’t I stop it? How can I be so irresponsible and careless that I could not even save myself.

How can I stop feeling guilty for prioritizing Allah’s love over my wife’s?

I realized I would have to make Allah my priority in life above everyone else. I continued what I was doing but this time solely for the sake of Allah but not for my wife.
I feel at peace now, but at times I feel guilty that my love for my wife has declined due to devoting myself more to Allah.