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Shocking divorce after miscarriage, will I meet my unborn baby in Jannah?

I married to a doctor who was out of family. He divorced me just after my 5 week abortion. I am really going through a great trauma and yet unable to forget my past. I do not know whether Allah almighty has punished me or made me free of exhusband. I am unable to accept reality…

My sister in law is interfering in my marriage

I would appreciate some advice…I’ve been married to my cousin for 8 years and we have 3 children.
Our marriage was arranged and things are going downhill. I feel like I´m losing this war of trying to keep my marriage together….

Loss of my baby took away desire to live

I converted to Islam four years ago and for this I am thankful my husband. We are married for four years and were waiting our first baby. My pregnancy was with no complications or anything what would give a reason for any concern. On 24th of August 2010 my baby came to this world. Next day he was taken away from my arms and from my life for ever.

I still love my ex husband and want him back

I prayed a lot to God to give me a good loving husband but Allah gave me then took him away from me. My unborn child remained unborn. Why he took my husband and my child away? If i do not remarry will I get my ex-husband the same one in the next world? Will I get my this child in the next world?

Depression since my girl left me

I have been together with a girl for six years. Last autumn she left me. Reason: she doesn’t love me anymore. Shortly before she left, we planned to marry. Since that day I have a terrible depression. I can’t stop the negative thinking. I think of her every day and night. I blame myself for not having done everything for her.

Husband abandoned me and I lost my baby

The first two years of my marriage were very unhappy. I came back to my mothers place, I subsequently realized that i was pregnant. I put a word to my husband, he was very upset he did not speak to me for about a month and finally posted a talak nama. He did not give any reasons. With the shock i lost my 4 months pregnancy.

I ruined my life by committing zinaa and I think I was molested as a child

Both of my parents are full time working. My dad has to spend most of his time out of station and mom in the hospital, I would be left with my aunt and cousins. One day, a man came to my house when I was about 5 or 6yrs old, he came to marry my another aunt who can not speak or hear. I don’t know why I remember this, I don’t know if im hallucinating or imaginning it…but I remember it like yesterday.

He promised to marry me, we committed zinaa, and now he’s married another girl!

I don’t know what has happened all of a sudden.The guy who used to promise me so many time that he will marry me after completing my studies, and I did sex with him because of that, suddenly married someone else without telling me. I am afraid of the sins I have done and I am afraid that nobody will marry me!

He says he needs space but how long can one wait for?

I got to know someone for the purpose of marriage this was the intention after having a lot of bad luck with other men. I finally think he is the one for me who spoke about a future, religion and what we would want in our marriage insha Allah. To be fair the relationship is not seen as a boyfriend/ girlfriend type.

Husband left me when I was diagnosed with cancer

I’ve been married for 7yrs. 3 yrs ago I was diagnosed with Cancer, 6 months later my little brother who was 22 at the time, died in car accident and then my grandma suddenly died only a week later. In that time, whilst I was grieving my husband was telling me as a joke that he had rights to get married to another, and that I was no good for him anymore, that I was a “WRITE-OFF”.