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We text and call each other; I just want to know if it’s right or wrong to do so before marriage?
Prior to my graduation; I met a Muslim girl 3 years ago who is born and raised Muslim, from the same ethnicity/background as mine. Long story short; we both exchanged text massages, calls and even met a couple times (public/private) Istaqfurullah. Its something I regret now. have decided to marry this girl but I am financially not ready. I am aware of the talks and text we are doing is haram so in that case I would like to do atleast a nikah but at this point what I am thinking is that we are in Ramadan. Should I keep talking to her or exchange text massages or wait till nikkah and cut contact with her.
Should I continue praying for the man I love to marry me or should I move on?
I wanted to marry a man from a different background and school of thought to my own; due to his past and cultural differences my family rejected him. When my father eventually came round he decided to do istikarah and informed me that he was no longer willing to marry me because of my father and small differences we had in the past. I’m in a bit of a limbo because on one hand I should accept his decision and move on but on the other I love him so and can’t move on he’s such a beautiful person mashallah. I sometimes don’t know whether I am right or wrong? Should I accept Allah’s decree and move on and accept the past is over or should I pray for our marriage?
I am having evil thoughts about the girl I wish to marry due to her past and can’t decide what to do? Please help
am a new Muslim, and 20 years of age and I am having some issues concerning relationships. I’ve known this girl for about nearly all my life and its beeen 3 months now since we confessed our love for each other but we’ve been in love for more than a year and I knew she loved me and that I loved her. I’ve never had sex in my life even though I wasn’t Muslim all my life and have been in several relationships but she told me just recently that she did have sex before with her previous “boyfriend” and he forced her? I cry every night asking for Allah’s help and every time I think about leaving her my heart aches and I just cant do it. I’ve never loved anyone like this in my life, to the point I would fall sick whenever I dont communicate with her.
Can we have misyaar/mutah marriage or any other legal contract to enjoy our life in a halal way?
I married a woman who forced me to divorce her after 4 years. Our marriage couldn’t succeed I didn’t spend much time with her for the reason that I am already married to my first wife and we have kids together. Our main reason to marry was that we loved each other and our sex life was strong enough to satisfy both of us to the fullest. Now my question is that; can we have a misyaar or mutah marriage or any other legal contract to enjoy ourselves sexually in a halal/legal way?
Sex and relationship with a married Muslim man.
I met a man from Gambia 3 months ago and we hit it off. I was extremely shocked at this as I had given him every opportunity to be honest; I asked him numerous times if he was single and each time he assured me that he was. Over the past week he has spoken of this about 3 times and also text me saying “would you marry me”; I replied by asking if that was a text proposal and he said that it was but that he would also do it face to face and on one knee.
Her mother wants a doctor for her.
Then our friendship became stronger and we fell in love . We have met only once after 8 months she met me for the first time. Mashallah we are totally pure. Her mom came to know about me that she loves me.
My father cheats on my mother and he is addicted to pornography as well
My father has been unfaithful to my mother for a number of times. Every time he did it, he always asked for forgiveness and promised to never do it again. My brother made me promise not to disclose this to our mother as he was worried that our family would fall apart.
How can I remove my past relationship from my mind?
Actually my problem is that i am a Muslim girl and was in relationship with Hindu guy. At that time i don’t know that this is a very wrong, but as i grow up and come to know that what all i am doing is so worse. I break my relationship…
Is it wrong to be in a relationship with opposite gender?
I would like to ask that I have a girlfriend and we love each other so much. We have a physical relationship like we hug and kiss etc etc but we never crossed our limits never had sex we always controlled ourselves. All we want to know that; is it wrong to be in a relationship before marriage with opposite gender.
I lost the love of my life after I hurt him.
I don’t know where to begin so this might be a little unorganized. I have been in love with someone for over 2 years now. I met him through one of my friends. We got closer slowly and i began to like him but it was nothing serious, we talked all the time for a few months then we stopped talking for no reason for around 4 months..
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