Tag Archive for ‘husband’

I used to beat and abuse my husband and now he wants to divorce me.
I am very tensed as I have committed a very big sin of beating my husband and abusing him and behaved very badly with him for which I feel so guilty that I am not able to forgive myself .

Husband is abusive and separates me from my family
I have been married for an year and a half. After marriage I moved abroad. My husband is 9 years older to me. I had problems with my in-laws and abusive husband. I filed a case of Khulah just to get rid of the torture I was going through. .

I’m with my mentally & physically abusive husband for the sake of my baby.
My husband has been physically and mentally abusing me continously since a long time. He had done so 3 years back and then had almost come an end to our marriage but then he promised to be good and sweared he would never do so and wanted to come back to me.

Who am I to choose? My parents or my husband?
I got married last year july.. at first my parents liked him but later on they didn want me to marry him because they got to know he had an affair with a non muslim girl during high school..

What should wife do if husband has no sexual relations with her for a long time?
What if a husband does not have sex with his wife for a long time? What should the wife do?

My husband doesn’t talk to me
He said that he can’t live a bachelor life as he comes home after 6 months; he told me that he is becoming desperate over there. We are having crazy fights because I said that he can do rukhsati at least but his response is that; for rukhsati he has to do Shadi (full wedding) and once Shadi (full wedding) is done, he won’t be able to leave me…..

I want out of this marriage as my husband’s condition hasn’t improved even after two and a half years.
I came to know about his mental illness(suffering from OCD ) only after the marriage which his parents had hidden from me. I was not able to tolerate it as the illness makes him do things very late and sometimes he speaks to himself ,takes hours to finish his prayers and moreover we are not compatible by a percent. We had many fights; seeked psychiatric help to cure him and save the marriage but now after 2 and half years; he is still the same and now I don’t want to continue as I am losing my own mental stability due to the stress he is causing me; can I go for divorce? we have a 1 n half year old son and he is my only concern now and my husband pleads me not to go away.

Should I seek divorce?
Assalamu alaikum, I am 22yr old muslim women, a graduate living in London. I am in desperate need of your help and advice. I had a love marriage a year ago, it was to a man i knew for many years. My family was totally against him and his family due to culture differences and […]

My husband has changed after finding out about a previous relationship
Since I married 2 years ago, I have had problems totally committing myself to my husband because of a previous haraam relationship I had with a guy. I have since cut ties with the guy and repented. I read the quran regularly, I have been fasting and praying for forgivness from almighty Allah…

I don´t connect with my husband emotionally at all, I still want a divorce.
I would first like to say that I regret what I have done and I repented to Allah. Here is my story, I am in my early 20’s and I got married at the age of 19..