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My sexual feelings are taking control over my life

Before I knew much about Islam, I dated many men and have performed many sexual acts with them. I obviously didn´t think much about the religious factor involved in doing such haram things. I had my first boyfreind when I was around 15, we never did anything apart from holding hands and hug. After my first boyfriend till my fifth boyfriend I didn’t do much more than holding hands and hugging.

Her husband beats her badly, she needs strength to take Khula

We need some serious advice, so she can find the strength to make the right decision and not feel weakened by the cry of her children, when ever he calls or when he msg’s her – and help her to be proactive and doing something about her Khula. We feel that she should leave him, even with four children because the children and her, do not deserve a man like that. We are trying to tell her “that think, if something had gone wrong under the fist beating. IF she become partially paralyzed … or what if she had died under that severe beating.

My life is a mess & I need someone to guide me to repent, please don´t judge me

Could you please help I got married to my pakistani cousin as parents made me feel guilty but didnt force me just made me feel so guilty I said yes. I had a boyfriend here in england so when I came back from pakistan after getting married I started to be with my boyfriend here again.

Husband is acting suspiciously and I dont trust him

Once againe i have to ask your advise regarding my suspicious the thing is i wrote to this web site telling everything is OK after he came back from haj he is changed the thing is he is still loving as always and helpful towards me but still i cant help checking his call log cause he never admitted about what went on and still on the call logs there are calls between him and his cousin now they are calls in the land line numbers not the mobile were one can trace it.

My husband has a boyfriend and loves him more than me

My husband has no interest in me. He does not like to talk and spend any minute with me. We live like strangers. When i complained he starts shouting and beating me. He has a friend, he loves him a lot. He ordered me to cook food for his boyfriend every day. After 6 month i said him i am tired now i just cook for you and me. He started shouting and said no grocery will come any more if you do not cook for my friend.

Help me please, the guilt is hurting me

Aslam alaikum sister I was in a haram relationship for 1 month but I talked to the guy about everyday for about 4 or 5 months. Also I ended it becuase of the guilt and knowing what I did was wrong. I have been feeling guilty everyday for about 2 months. How do I get rid of the guilt myself.

My Husband Doesn’t Want To Work!

It has now been a year since he hasn’t worked, and he blames me for this. He worked a few jobs since being in America, but this past year he doesn’t want to do anything. He tells me, “since you aren’t working I give up. We don’t get anywhere if you’re not helping me, so I’m not going to work either.”

Arranged marriage – does he love me?

Salam, I am 25 years old and a mother of two kids I don’t know whether my husband wants me or if he loves me. I don’t find a solution for my answer because he doesn’t even care for my children nor even me in a positive way. I think he is busy in his […]

I am in a strange state of life

I am a Muslim woman ,married since last 14 years, I have a very complicated situation. i have 2 kids. I got married in a very young age and was hardly aware of sex and pleasure. Over all he is a gentleman but he forced me always to do job , I’m doing job in a factory since I got married with him and used to give him my all salary. He used to spend all money on his relatives but I never objected by the fears of ALLAH

Am I divorced?

My husband sent me divorce papers. 4 months have lapsed he has not provided me of children with any financial support, took my gold jewellery and money from bank all savings put injunction on saving and now wants to reconcile. I can’t trust him, but am I divorced as 4 months have lapsed?