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Emotionally crushed by my husband’s indifference

I am so sick of it. I’ve never been more angry, more sad, more depressed. I can’t even look at his face. He makes me nauseous. His voice is so annoying. I feel so bad for feeling this way, but I’ve been spending the past week making duaa, praying and reading Quran- but I just can’t get over it this time. I wake up and go to sleep crying. Tomorrow is our third year anniversary, and I truly despise my husband this moment.

A mother’s love – has she accepted me as her daughter-in-law?

Has my mother-in-law accepted and approved our marriage?

Having problems with living as a joint family

My wife consistently tells me that it is not her responsibility to take care of my parents. I agree, but I have a responsibility to my parents. My mother is a very sick woman and she has never committed a wrongdoing on my wife.

Dreaming about my husband, although he has left me

I don’t know what this dream means. He removed me from the house; in short I am a victim of domestic violence. My in-laws also don’t like me.

What are my financial obligations to my in-laws?

As a son in law staying wit his father in law, is it obligatory that I have to pay rent?

Why is my mother-in-law keeping us apart? What are my rights here?

My husband says I should not go to my parents without his permission. My mother-in-law now says to stop my job and do all the work of home. She has stopped her son arranging my visa.

Were they fair to take my jewellery?

My parents gave me jewellery at my wedding, but demand it back since I’m divorced now. My in-laws have also taken what they gave me, along with everything else I owned as well.

My mother-in-law and sister-in-law are destroying my marriage

My husband is severely controlled by his sister and mother. He told me his sister is next perfect to Allah and always right so he has to obey. He doesn’t see how abnormal it is that he sleeps in the same bed as his mother and not his wife…

Did he marry me so I can serve his mother? Why am I being treated this way?

Does he not wish me to come to his country? Did his mother marry him so I can serve her? I don’t want to spend a life like this.

My husband does everything for his brother’s wife

am starting to feel like his sister-in-law doesn’t respect our marriage and she feels it’s ok to have my husband out at 1 am with her kids and her doing grocery shopping while I am alone at home and her husband is at his business which is open 24 hours. I don’t understand why she would not tell my husband it’s ok that she can do groceries with her husband the following day?