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Tag Archive for ‘physical abuse’

Husband hit me, did i do something wrong?

My husband hit me so harshly that I got nose-bleeding and bruises over my body. I am afraid. Afraid to see him again.

Why do I have to suffer?

So then I had my first baby boy. My husband was okay after that at first, then he started physical abuse for no reason. Alhumdulillah, I’m slim, good looking, and nobody can tell I’ve had kids but still he always has to say something bad about me. I tried talking to him, but he always says that he hates my mom. I don’t know why.

Physical, emotional and financial abuse… Is this what an Islamic marriage is meant to be like???

I wanted to learn more about Islam by his example… I was held prisoner in his parent’s home. He punched and kicked me everywhere, saying he would make sure I never conceive a baby. It took weeks for my bruises to heal and I have permanent scarring on my eye.

Is it permissible for a muslim woman to move out of the house because of abuse?

I can not live in this house anymore, I am constantly being put down by my mother. On a daily basis it is constant bickering from her, yelling and screaming.

My new husband beats me and curses me

On the day of my nikah He told me he was forced to get married to me and that hurt a lot. I know he didnt mean it. We werent happy, we didnt even sleep together that night. 2 days later we got into a fight.

The Role of a Wife when the Husband fails to fulfil his duties

He is verbally abusive towards his wife and did not fulfill any of his duties even getting his children married. Since now the children are independent and educated by their efforts and ofcourse the support from Allah SWT he cannot physicly abuse the women (1st wife) as children are very much against him.

What does Islam/Sharia Law say about an abusive husband who is also involved with his Ex?

AAA and her Uncle XXX on his facebook. my husband did not ever know this girl or her family as classmates or co-workers. He only met her for the purpose of marriage. I met this girl and said you met him because of marriage issues very politely and she admitted but she still did not delete him form her facebook and even my husband didn ot delete her and her uncle from his facebook. I informed her parents about this girl who he is involved with but his mother said that boys and girls can be friends these days.

I married a Practicing Muslim, he turned out to be Promiscuous.

I married my husband who said he was a practicing Mulsim. After marriage, I discovered he was not praying, he did fast though. I thought he was an angel sent by Allah. I trusted him a lot. After having my first child, I discovered that my husband had committed adultery and he confessed to an Imam.

My kids abandoned me for their father

Assalamualaykom..
am a mother of a girl and a boy (9 and 8 ) and I got divorced from my husband about a year and a half ago.. Since then I haven’t seen my kids,

Unstable harmony – beatings by husband who loves me

My arms which were smooth are now covered in scars. He kicks me in my belly, he hits me in the face, chokes me, anyhow, becomes very violent. And when I kick back or push him away, he says I am very wrong for doing so. I should never even come close to pushing my husband. He beats me because I were to become disobedient. And it’s true that I have some issues with obedience. I sometimes can’t keep up. There are lots of things I need to change, but I can’t do it in one day, one month or even one year, it takes time. I do want to change.