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Need help to take decision for khula

He has been cruel both physically, emotionally, verbally… I cannot live a life where I hate my husband.

Please help me, I am scared and don’t know what to do

Many times I have wanted to leave, but he has been sexually physically and verbally abusive. He is so possessive and manipulative and I have been forced to do many things I did not consent for.

Verbal and physical abuse by my husband

Deep down in my heart I know he will never change and I dont want children because I know they have to face this abuse, which I do not want my enemy to feel.

Why Allah Testing me in a Dire Manner?

Whenever I find happiness it gets taken before it even reaches my hands. I don’t even know what to do anymore…

15 years old and abused by parents

I’ve suffered from physical abuse from my father and my mother. I’ve also been starved by her.

How can my sister and I escape our father?

With every day he gets more violent… He has threatened to sell her, to take out her eyes and ears, to disable her so that she will suffer for her entire life.

Helpless and Emotionally Abused by My Mother

I am seriously alone and I am scared and I am helpless. How do I continue to live here? As I have gotten older the abuse has gotten harder to endure.

Still haven’t left an unbearable relationship

The only reason I have stayed with him was my child, who is now 3 years old. But now when I see him not taking care of me as well as my child, I think I should leave now. I know my child needs a father, but a father like him? And would my child be okay seeing a depressed mother all the time or disconnected parents, who either fight or would not speak to each other for weeks? Or would he be better off?

Living with abusive mother for 25 years

As-Salamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatuallahu Wa Barakatuh,  For the past 25 years I’ve been living in a household that was emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive. My mother -May Allah SWT reward her- has been through a lot, but with that being said she has done a lot to me that damaged me pretty bad. I was always […]

My Khula date is very near… but must I forgive him instead?

He is now apologising again that he will never hit me, provide me with a home and fulfill my rights as a wife. I am not sure if I must forgive him or not?