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My husband smokes weed and is beating me while I am pregnant

I have been married for 1 year and I am 3 months pregnant. My husband smokes weed everyday, he beats me, calls me names and emotionally abuses me. I know he used to sell weed and now he wants to sell it again but i told him no. I went through his phone today and […]

I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years, but my father has threatened to kill me if I choose my own husband.

I would like to begin this query by asking Almighty Allah to forgive me for all that I have done. In some way I know I may not have done the right thing but I don’t know what is right or wrong anymore. I live in a family where, for me it has been a nightmare. I know Islam tells you to respect your parents but what my family has done with me I cannot respect my parents.

My husband beats me

I have been married for 3 years now and my husband has a temper problem, he hit me the first week we got married it was in a car. Then he did it a couple times after that. But just recently he has gotten much better he tries to control his anger as much as possible and tells me when I tell you to leave me alone just leave me alone. I know myself and my temper.

My husband beats me up and cheats on me but I still love him

Salam, what it is that i have been married for six years now and i am confused in my marriage. well i had been with my husband before marriage for 7 years we really loved each other and got married. I got engaged first and then realised that he became really controling like dont go out, wear a hijab, did your male etc cousins come round, why do they come to your house etc. He also use to hit me but then he use to say, its because your away from me, thats why i feel like this.

Struggling to get the courage to leave an abusive husband

I feel emotionally and physically numb and sometimes I feel as if I am living in a movie. Nothing seems real. I struggle not to think and to try to figure my husband out and his ways. Thinking about him drives me to insanity. It makes me feel as if the house is so narrow that I am going to suffocate.

My mother taunts me, curses me and tells me to die

Dear Wael, Can u please set me up with one of your counselors, i need help.
I’m 21 years old, we r 7 brothers and sisters, ive faced emotional abuse for my whole life, my mother wanted first son and i was born, im the oldest, she hates me since that day. she taunts me curses me and keeps telling me to die, she keeps saying that i shuld have died at birth as it would have been good for all of us,and that im the worst thing that ever happened to her, she says i will never have a normal life and i will live painfully for who i am

Broken Marriage?

I am a Muslim woman and I am ashamed of saying this but I do not practice my religion 100% I have started to pray and would like to get closer to Allah. I have been married for 5 years now. During these years my husband has been physically abusive since day 2.

Feel helpless and hopless in abusive/careless fiancé!

I’m about to get married to him and i dont know what to do anymore because i feel that he has lost love 4 me but denies it, and lost that passionate or even tiny bit of care for me, but yet still claims to have it but i dont see it if hes doing this to me? I want to change him i just dont know how or what will open up his eyes and see what he has in front of him.

I am in too much pain, I’ve had enough but I feel horrible at the same time

I want to Divorce my husband of 8 years. We have two children together. Can somebody please give me the strength to leave him. He is very Controlling, abusive mentally physically.

He punch’s me in my head, swears at me, calls me horrible names, two days after I gave birth to his child he beat me, he beat me while I was pregnant. I do everything for this man, I clean, I cook, I take care of his kids, I take care of him, his needs, but when he falls into a rage. Nobody can help him cool down.

If I want a divorce I have to leave, he wont give me any money, he’s going to take everything off my name. So now what, leave where with two kids?