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Masturbation – Is this my punishment?

I pray 5 times every day and recite Quran but I can’t give up my habit on masturbation. My life is all pain and I don’t know what to do.

Why is this my life?

My silly mother still thinks with the hope of Allah. I am burned out, with much regret. I am tired of the US; the way people dress and act – it’s as if I’ve been poisoned. My plan is to finish my bachelors and join the Iranian Military. I wish to free myself from America.

Caught husband hiding porn on his phone

Then one day he was acting very suspicious with his phone -he kept hiding it and smiling at the same time. Something told me to grab his phone and I did. I found so much porn, also pictures of women’s backsides. I’ve never had low self esteem in my life, nor was I ever depressed.

My husband is not happy with our lovemaking

My husband says that I never cooperated with him when we made love. He demands wild sex, but I don’t know what is all that, and he does not discuss with me what he actually wants.

I lived in a non-Muslim country for a long time and don’t know how to pray; can I give up prayers?

Now I’m in a Arab country such as Bahrain and it’s really hard for me not knowing Arabic in an Arab country, so I want to know is it ok if I don’t pray? And if that is a problem, what is the fastest way to learn how to pray?

Desperate struggle between religion and sexual desires

I don’t know how long I can keep this as I have a very high sex drive. The only solution for me is to get married but that is not advisable as I’m only 16. I really want to change and have a positive impact on the people around me and stay in the UK and be a positive influence.

Young man, unable to stop myself from sins

First, missing Salah at times, then reducing daily 5 times to only 4 or 3 even 2. Then I used to listen music again (very less that too at times), and this also changed into a daily routine of music, then finally I began missing namaz daily, then came porn and masturbution. Now I am unable to have control over these wrong deeds.

Hoor, polygamy, children…dilemmas of an ex-sinner

Thinking of more women and variety reverses my contentment and harms the frame of mind I have constructed for myself. It feels like greed to me and it reminds me of my past. It doesn’t leave any space for love at all. I just don’t feel comfortable with extra lust.

How should I handle my wife who watches pornography?

I’ve discovered that my wife consistently watches porn privately when i’m at work or away. This is numerous of times per week and it’s hidden from me. I’m shocked about this and think that it has been going on for a number of years due some of the ideas she’s come up with in bed a while ago.

I can’t live with him this way, but I can’t live without him

He got a job finally after 3 years. Then I noticed the problems. He didn’t bring any money home and kept making excuses and telling me to be patient. I accepted his excuses and waited. After one year had passed still no wages! I nagged him to get another job as he is not making any money.