Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Would it be wrong if I converted to marry her and be together properly; though I don’t think I would do it without her?

I do not have a very extensive knowledge about religions but Islam does appeal to me. Would it be wrong if I converted so we could marry and be together properly? I do want to do it but I don’t think I would do it without her and I believe she is the thing I need to push myself to become a better person.

Got a non-Muslim woman pregnant; need help

I had sex with one non Muslim girl and got her pregnant. She doesn’t want to have an abortion. I don’t know what to do now? I need your advice in this matter.

Christian single mother in love with Muslim man; any advice on how we can be together?

Is there any way I can help him to ask for forgiveness from them, as that is more important to me than my own happiness just feel so helpless. Second to that; is there any way I can prove to them I am true, sincere and just love him? Any suggestions on how to try and get their blessing for us?

I want to marry a girl but her parents don’t agree to our marriage.

I am in deep trouble these days, don’t know what to do? Please help me. I can do anything for her; I can improve my colour,take my career in good way. I pray, read Quran and pray to Allah to forgive my sins and help me in getting married with her. Is it possible. Can Allah help us?

Is there a place for us?

I know he has been considering me deeply as he has broached the subject of conversion. I know this must be serious step because we have never talked about either religion to each other. However, converting is not for me. All the same, every day I see something else I like in this man, and everyday my feelings growing stronger for him.

My fiance cheated on me; should i marry him?

I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now and we got engaged at the end of last year. I found out 5/6 months ago that he had cheated on me with a non-Muslim who then wouldn’t leave him alone and statrted playing games with him. My mum had agreed for me to marry him initially however now disagrees with this. She has said on many occasions she has had signs even in her sleep that this guy is not right for me and wants me to just move on from him. His parents have also from day 1 tried picking at things and constantly trying to lecture me on what to do and I feel that this will happen more if I was to get married to him. I am so confused as I don’t know what to do?

I am confused as he says; he loves me yet doesn’t want to dissolve his marriage.

I was introduced to a boy as we were both in a stage of looking for marriage. Whilst I got to know him we both developed feelings for each other and wanting to marry one another. So, when my other half found out he was fuming and said I could not be trusted. He then looked at another proposal his parents arranged for him and told me he was still in love with me. Thereafter, our relationship was going downhill and after a month of our mending of relationship I heard he is marrying another girl! He calls me and tells me he loves me and made a hasty decision out of confusion!

Is our child haram?

I would like to know if the child is haram who is born to a Muslim couple who are not married but living together?

I want a divorce from my wife and want to marry this other girl who I have been in relationship with.

I am in a situation which is very troubling. Eight years ago I got married to my mother’s identical twin sister’s daughter from Pakistan. For all these years I have put on an act so my mother remains happy. We are not able to have children & last year I became exhausted of living a lie. I met a girl with a beautiful heart and good intentions with whom I and she instantly had a spark and connection with. Unfortunately, she became pregnant with my twin babies & this is when I had to tell her I was still married. I left her with no option but to abort.

I cheated on my husband but didn’t tell him until a year later

I was in a relationship with a boy at the age of 17 and it went along for about 3 years until we decided to get married without telling our parents. The first 6 months of our relationship I had a problem of not being fully committed to him and I cheated by kissing 5 other guys during that time.