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Am I worth it?

I mean i am now 36 years old, i have four kids should i be wanting more? Should i not be living just for the kids and let him live his life? Should i not be content with what i’ve got? What have i got?

His parents aren’t letting us live separately

I hate the culture I am born in. It’s like a wife is just a servant, a sex toy for her husband but parents are God (Auzubillah), as if everything they say is written in stone and even if it goes against Islam it must be followed. I can’t take this anymore. I’m so shattered. I can’t eat, drink, sleep. I want to make this proposal halal by marrying this man. He was the one I always made duaa for so why are his parents doing this to us?

Wife left me and took our child with her, I want to leave her but not my son. Please help.

She argues with me, she replied every word I have said to her. She has very big support of her family. Whenever I feel something right for her in our relation she argues with me and calls her family and they insults me in my decision. But all that does not matter to her in any ways. As time is passed I don’t want to live with her any more I need my child because I don’t want him to live with them all.

Can I limit my wife’s visits to her parents?

That was the last day when I spoke to my wife on phone. Its been 5 months now and I’m not in any talking terms with her or her family. Though she sent me messages that she needs money. I never replied to her.

Need duas to help my husband get rid of drinking problem

I’m requesting him off and on to stop this drinking nonsense but he’s not listening because there’s no elder man at home to check or stop him. None’s ready to support my point, and I’ve come to realize they all knew everything about it already.

I got the punishment for my deeds in this World itself. What should I do?

I was from a modern middle-class family and got married to a rich and handsome Muslim man who came from a VERY, VERY conservative family. Our marriage lasted for only 3 years. Here’s where the problems started – I was failing to get pregnant and my mother-in law and paternal grandmother-in law would taunt me for this.

I am tired of my in-laws and don’t know what to do about it?

I get the brunt of it then it causes problem for me and husband because he thinks I’m moody and doesn’t understand that all this is getting to me. We never go out; stay at home just in case I’m in new area i don’t know anyone here so I’m always stuck in the house 24/7

I want to re-unite with my husband for my daughter’s sake.

My question to you is if you can tell me any dua or wazeefa which I can read to have him back with both the family approval and he comes and live with me forever” on Allah’s (SWT) will. I am very much stressed at the moment; don’t know what to do kindly help me with the matter and reply me please.

Is it a sin to not have a close relationship with my in laws?

Whilst living with my husband’s family I felt very uncomfortable because I have come from a very peaceful and calm Muslim family Alhamdulillah and stepped into a “Muslim” household which is dominated by conflict, gossiping, backbiting and unnecessary drama every day.