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Need a wazifa to get my fiance to come back

One week before the engagement he told me and my family that he is not able to digest the fact that I had intercourse with my ex boyfriend and he is breaking the relationship…

Why has my Muslim man not contacted me?

I just want to know what’s going on – if we are still together or whether I need to ‘move on’ and find someone else in my life.

No pure love in Islam?

He is saying that love is not allowed in Islam because our prophet SAWS didn’t did do love marriages, so how can we do it? I told him that if our love is pure without any sexual contact, then Allah is always with pure love.

Will he reject me now he knows I’m not a virgin?

This man doesn’t deserve someone that isn’t a virgin. I told him that I am not a virgin hoping if he heard my story he would understand. If he doesn’t accept me, how am I supposed to end this without my family being devastated? Will this one mistake determine my nasib every time I speak the truth when I get a proposal?

I’ve supported and loved her for 5 years… Now she’s ended things

She says she hopes the other man is good as I am and it just hurts – she wants someone exactly like me but just not me.

Is it mandatory to get married in Islam?

The problem is that now I don’t want to marry- the reasons being that I don’t want to be insulted again and I still love the same girl. I don’t feel the same way about anyone else and I kinda hate girls now; I don’t want any of them now.

Distressed about my marriage

I love this man but I am so unhappy. The only thing that keeps me bonded to him is my love for him and his kindness towards me. Otherwise I would have filed for divorce long time ago. We have even tried counseling, but things are not changing. Not only that, we have financial issues now as he can’t find a job in his field and many times I provide him money. I have become depressed, and many times think of committing suicide because I can’t leave him nor can I stay with him.

What have I done to make my father treat me worst?

He also thinks I’m dumb and the least smartest in the family due to exam results from 3 years ago. But exam results don’t mean anything! Alhamdullillah, I am in university studying a great course, but nothing seems to make him appreciate me. He reckons this sister of mine is so smart. Often my feelings for my sister are negative because of him.

Her parents are refusing marriage but I don’t know why – maybe because of caste?

I don’t know why her mother refused. I am trying to forget her but not succeeding.

Muslim boyfriend scared to approach his parents and inform them about me

I’m a Christian and my bf a Muslim. We loved each other and wanted to live together, but lately he stepped back thinking about his younger brother’s future.