Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘repentance’

Please, help me to avoid negative thoughts and acts.

I am 26 year old male unmarried, I have committed a sin. I have a negative attitude towards my maid servant. Today I hugged and kissed her which is not legal but …

I was forced to get married by my mother!

However, my smile turned upside down when my mum took me and brother’s passport away and said we weren’t going back to the UK. As you can imagine, I was devastated. I still had another year in secondary school; also I recently got through an audition for a charity theatre company. As a result, I became angry at my mum for the first time!

I love a Christian woman, everybody tells me to forget her.

I want to marry her, I tried to convince her many times told her Islam is the right way but presently she isn’t ready to revert back to Islam, it’s may be because I never guided her rightly as I myself was sinner and her parents are working in some Christian missionary…

I’m straight but masturbated to lesbian porn, please help

I am 16 years old, I am straight . But I used to watch and masturbate to Lesbian Porn [Just rubbing,not sticking] . I have stopped that. But now thinking back I feel soo disgusted. But the thing is i know that i am not a Lesbian. I am emotionally and Sexually attracted to Boys ..

Mutah marriage, four years full of lies.

My story begins with a man that i have been with for almost 4 years now. We met online and we fell in love quickly, we talked about getting married and having a family from the beginning. He spoke to me about Islam daily…

My sins have changed me. SUBHAN ALLAH.

Last year, something happened which changed me completely and dramatically. It all began when I opened a Facebook account and I got to know some guys. Shortly after accepting their friend requests we started to use MSN and a little while after that we decided to open the webcams..

I am tested once and again, will my sins be forgiven?

I met a girl who could read palms, I asked her to look into mine, when she had looked into mine , she said that although I stress a lot, I am an easy come and go for guys, I feel what she has said is always turning out to be right, and I feel like what she has said will always remain with me forever…

How do I get rid of these thoughts?

Basically I get feelings that I have no control over. My parents had decided when I was very young that I would get married to my first cousin and as far as I know this is official although no engagement has been officially done.

I am lost, if sins are forgiven I want to die, I want peace.

Already I had lost hope, been through to severe depression, seen failures, very sensitive, scare of dying not Allah. I ´m very simple, shy, people take advantage of my simpilicity. I don´t know my purpose of living. Worship I don´t know. God don´t help me the I begged, prayed…

Swearing By Allah.How to stop something bad from happening

I have a question about swearing by Allah.
(This was when i was not as religious.)
So let’s say that you are very afraid that something will happen so you ask Allah, I will never do this thing ever again, will you please stop whatever I’m scared of from happening? (Or maybe something has already happened, and you are asking Allah to stop it) Sort of like a sacrifice so the thing doesn´t happen?