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Advice about how to handle wife’s past

Sometimes I feel weak because of her past and my male ego gets very hurt… If she was married before, but never committed any unlawful deeds such as premarital sex it would be much easier for me to handle.

Is our marriage valid without physical intimacy?

He says he is disturbed and he doesn’t feel like being in physical relationship with me. Is it permissible for a married couple to live like this?

Heartbroken by my husband’s secret second marriage

He calls it jealousy but I am really dying inside. Please help me. What shall I do? I can’t force him to divorce her and I can’t live with him with her.

My Wife Has Left Me Devastated and Heartbroken

I walked in on them back home from work with each of them in an indecent position. I flew into a rage after which my wife left me. I called her up a couple of times, but she has been demanding a divorce and nothing less from me.

Her behavior is changing since we did Istikharah

We have done istikhara. I have thrice been awarded by Allah his Raza. But she couldn’t see anything. Now she is asking me to see some Aalim and then only decide whether to go further or not. Also there is a marked turning point in her behavior.

He married someone else, now I’ve been committing zina with a married man

He got engaged without me knowing… We realised we still had feelings and committed zina. He wants to bring his wife to the UK and wants me to consider second marriage.

Is my husband being ungrateful to Allah?

I just want to know, If my husband is doing the right thing by thinking of marrying someone else, and is this being ungrateful to ALLAH???

Why can’t a woman have more than one husband?

the saying is that a man can have 4 wives (if he treats them the same). but then why can’t a woman have more than 1 husband?? reason??

I married a man as a second wife who kept our relationship hidden from his family.

Nothing is as I thought it would be or as it should be. I knew he was married – I knew I would be a second wife. What I did not know is he would keep me a secret from ALL of his family. He’s planning on coming to stay in America in January. My question is simple. I do not agree in any form being a secret. I want to know my rights according to Islam.

Am I allowed to tell his second wife of my existance as his first wife?

Please answer my question. I am having a dilemma dealing with the situation. My husband and I are married for 3 years. Its been really beautiful in the beginning so much love and so much respect and lot of trust was our marriage. Suddenly my husband started changing and was withdrawn for me and was acting up e.g getting angry very quickly, saying hurtful words and talking about me to other people.