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My friends are all married but I can’t even finish school

Everything seems so difficult, as I feel mentally drained. I feel old and tired. Studying while working a job is so difficult.

Parents not agreeing in who I want to marry…

I want to make things halal and get away from sin.

Frustrated and worried

My husband is not sexually well… he smokes sheesha… he sits all day home and fights on the silly things.

I’m tired of being the good girl!

But now I want all of this to end. I want to move out and get my own place, I want to party, drink and have sex. I don’t want to wear the Hijab or abaya anymore. I want to get fast money and it doesn’t have to involve in sex/men.

Why am I tired all the time?

I always feel tired all the same no matter what I do, tiredness always takes over me. I always take a nap in the early afternoon, which is very embarrassing. When I was very young, I used to have so much energy; it has faded away after my vermiform appendix was removed. I used to sleep all the time at school, taxi, home, family’s home and anywhere but I am getting better alhamdulilaah.

How can I combat my laziness for prayer?

I am 14-year-old Muslim girl. I need some advice on laziness. I really like to pray and really want to pray. I know how to pray in medium level. But I don’t pray. The only reason I don’t pray is I am too lazy to do the ablution (tahorat) five times a day before every prayer.

Why am I so tired of life?

I cannot seem to find the strength in me to forgive myself or whatever I do, anything that includes me I absolutely loathe. I have told so many people about it, tried so many different things but I always end up back to square one.