Boy’s parents are refusing to allow marriage for no reason
Assalaamu Alaikkum... May Allah guide u to give me a answer in His way...
If a boy and girl are in affection with each other for Allah, both are religious and Insha Allah wants to marry each other, what parents should do...
The boy's parents are not accepting, but they dont have any reason exactly, but the boy and girl are asking dua to Allah to make their parents accept, they both want to like in Islamic way and they Insha Allah want to marry in Islamic way...
Boy parents ask dua that this marriage should not happen (Allah should save)... How Allah judge these types of dua... It has been more than two years that both waiting for parents acceptance, but boy's family doesnt accept, may be as they are rich...
What Islam says about this situation... That boy and girl have prayed Isthihara already... Insha Allah please reply...
Allah Hafiz...
- M Ghoofi
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Wa alaykum as-salam,
What does this mean, that the boy's parents "don't have any reason exactly" for refusing? They must have given a reason. What did they say? No one would wait two years without even receiving a reason or explanation.
If you want an honest answer, then be honest with us and give us the relevant details.
Wael
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Salaam, you havent told us the actual reason, but you suggest it could be the financial difference between the two families.
i will take this factor and base my answer as so, you say that both the girl and boy are religious which i deduce means the parents must practice religion to a certain degree, and so the boys parents must know refusal on grounds of finance is not valid and not considered a reason for a proposal to be turned down in islam.
Two years is a long time to wait, i mean no offence but if the boy really wanted to marry the girl he would have found out the exact reason of refusal, and if it was financial then confronted them that it is a invalid reason, and gone ahead with the marriage since their is no ground for parents to stand on, but the main problem is the REASON, and i strongly think it is not financial because to pray that Allah prevent something from happening for a petty reason like wealth is not on( im sure his parents fear Allah, what kind of dua would be made to prevent marriage due to money of the dunya) so as brother wael said if you tell us the reason then you can get more accurate and better advice.
furthermore you say they have prayed istikhara, well what was the outcome of that and if positive yet another reason for parents to accept the marriage.
look forward to hearing back from you, may Allah guide you insha'Allah.