Halala
Question:
I'm looking for someone to do halala marriage with so I can go back to marrying my first husband.
- saj
Wael's Answer:
Sister Saj, As-salamu alaykum
"Halala" is a haram and cursed process. See my previous answer on this subject here:
http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/i-need-a-divorced-couple-so-we-can-do-halala-for-each-other/
Allah's laws are not a game to be played with, or to try to find loopholes. If you have divorced three times, then you are not compatible and it is time to move on with your life and find someone else Insha'Allah.
What causes some people to be confused is that there is one exception under which a three-times divorced couple can marry again. But it is not based on "halala" or loopholes or artificial marriages.
If, in the course of your life, you marry someone else sincerely intending to stay with him/her for life, but for some reason it does not work out and ends in divorce... and if, after that time, your first spouse is single and consents to marry you, then you can marry. The key is sincerity and honesty, not trying to play games with Allah's shari'ah.
Wael Abdelgawad
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
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my muslim husband divorced me three time when we where having a fight & after which he wish he had not done,. as i understand to be divorce it must be said three time but i read somewhere that if he said it in anger that we are still married as he was not in the right mind when he said it. can anyone help me on this as we love one another & wish to be marry as we have children
i love my husband very much & do not wish to marry another man in my life, we have been married for 6 years & have children.
if we are divorced can we remarry one another.
i am so sad to hear these sisters stories and am wondering how they are getting on.
after researhing the divorce issue, i urge the above sisters to contact the sharia council of london for further indepth advice. may allah ease your suffering. Ameen