Islamic marriage advice and family advice

I want to make a guy propose me.

Posted by • March 21, 2011 • Printer-friendly
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Salaam,

What should I recite to make a guy propose me if I want to marry one particular person?

ambu


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  1. wael
    March 21, 2011 • 8:07 pm

    ambu, you cannot "make" anyone do anything. People are not puppets. Each person has free will and makes his own choices. Dua' is not a tool to force people to do what you want.

    My suggestion is that you make dua' to Allah to bring you a good husband, who will live with you in peace and happiness, and will help you in your dunya and aakhirah. Ask Allah every day, and keep your mind and heart open to whoever Allah sends you.

    Wael
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    • Modest2011
      March 22, 2011 • 1:24 am

      Assalam Alaikum,

      What a great answer you've provided brother Wael. I believe every man and woman should make this dua when seeking a life partner.

      Thanks, your responses are always so great and thoughtful, Alhamdulilah.

      -Modest

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  2. María M
    March 21, 2011 • 9:42 pm

    As salamu alaykum, Ambu,

    Just a few thoughts and questions that I would like to share with you.

    .....If I tell you that if a man is not interested in you is a sign for you to stay away from him, what would you think?

    .....If someone is interested in you and you aren´t interested in this person, how would you feel if this person tries to submit your own will to him?

    I think that you posted this question because you haven´t thought deeply about the consequences of what you mention. From now on, be conscious that the only person that we can change is ourselves and always if Allah (swt) wants it, then work on yourself to be your best in this world, insha´Allah.

    Allah(swt) knows best.

    All my Unconditional Love and Respect,

    María
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  3. hafsa
    March 23, 2011 • 12:59 pm

    sister the fact that this person has not proposed to you means Allah has not written him in your destiny- none of us can fight God's decree, if we try we'll be destroyed. On the other had as brother Wael suggested if you pray for a good husband and attain one- then God has answered your prayers. If this guy is meant to be your husband nothing in the world can stop that.

    Pray and patience is the best remedy.
    take care

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