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My father cheated on my mother, do I tell her?

My sister just found out that my father was in a relationship with her 25-year old maid, she confronted her maid and themaid admitted that he approached her last year during his visit (when the maid found out about her husband marrying second wife she was devastated and wanted a shoulder to cry on) the maid admitted she made mistake.

My husband slept with my 13 year old sister

Basically me and my husband were engaged from the age when i was 14. As a family we had some trips abroad to where my fiancee was in relation he is my cousin. A few years back when I went with family he had sexual intercourse with my sister who was 13 at the time this was before we got married.i didnt find out until i gave birth to our first child.

Should I tell my husband that I cheated on him with my ex?

I’m in such a big mess right now and I don’t know what to do.
4 years ago I got into a thing with a Muslim boy named Ammar. At that time I was a Christian, and in the beginning I flirted, danced and kissed a couple of boys during the first weeks we were together.
I stopped when our relationship eventually got serious and after a year together it became very strong and we had sex.

My husband has conceived a child with his mistress

My husband cheated on me with a woman & conceived a child and continued to cheat. He hasnt married her & he admits that she’s not good wife material for him & that it wouldnt benefit me.

How do I forgive myself for cheating on my husband?

I’m married. Last year I kind of cheated on my husband. I never wanted to cheat on him, he’s very nice – we were just having some issyes in our marriage. I was 19 years old.

How do I go about getting a divorce from my husband?

I was going through menopause and was not very sexual with my husband. I know it was not a good thing to do, for my husband went to someone else and cheated on me.

Severely depressed over broken promise of marriage

Asalaam alaikum. Me, Sarasaif converted from Hindu to Muslim and got married to a Muslim guy who loved me a lot.
It happened 8 years back. I was a widow and it was indeed of security and finance to lead life with a girl child. The marriage was not held in any mosque and without any witness. And our relationship continued.

My husband keeps cheating on me, how can I forgive him?

Just before our wedding, my husband physically cheated on me, he apologized, said it was stress due to his mothers alcoholism so I forgave him. However, throughout our marriage, whenever I went on a holiday to see my parents, I found that he spoke to women online etc, but I have forgiven him every time (4 times till now).

Cheating husband had text messages to female on his phone

I found explicit text messages on my husbands phone to another female. He admits to seeing this female and when I asked if he had sexual intercourse with her he would not deny it or admit it. He then said he was close to doing something but will not expand on it.

My husband hates his stepdaughter

I got married to someone from Pakistan. Neither of us were happy in this marriage, he became very violent with me as did I. Then, I made the worst mistake of my life, I was seperated from him and I met someone else. I began having an affair, astagfirullah. Then my parents told me I have to give my husband another chance so I did, trying to finish my affair.