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Tag Archive for ‘affair’

My life is a mess & I need someone to guide me to repent, please don´t judge me

Could you please help I got married to my pakistani cousin as parents made me feel guilty but didnt force me just made me feel so guilty I said yes. I had a boyfriend here in england so when I came back from pakistan after getting married I started to be with my boyfriend here again.

Istikhara dream

I did istikhara about me and my x husband, he betrayed me he was having affair with another married woman and she got a baby from my husband. Her husband left her then my husband did nikah with her aswell without telling me, then when i found out i told him i dont want him in the house then we got seprate and husband started living with that woman but stil he was coming to see us. We have 2 kids, a boy 5yr old and a girl 1yr old.

We fight every day, should I continue the relationship?

As you can read the Title of the post, its about the fact that I am questioning myself if I should continue this affair/word given I have with this young lady. As I have read in before posts from other Muslim brothers and sisters when you intend to marry someone look for the woman that will help you reach higher places in the Islam, so a lady with attention to her Deen. But is it also wrong for me if I have certain expectations such as looks, body size and etc?

My boyfriend won’t marry me but is going on Tableegh instead.

Aassalamu Aalaikum. I am a Bangladeshi girl of 25. I’ve completed masters last year. I’ve affair with a boy. He is my classmate. He has completed M.B.A exam last month. Now he is doing Internship in a bank. I said him to marry me after completing Internship.Because I know that relationship with a gayre maharram is totally haram. But he is not interested to marry me now.

My husband had an affair after 10 years of marriage, should I forgive him?

I’ve been married for 10 years and my husband cheated on me. I thought i had the perfect marriage and i have a beautiful 5 year old, i struggle to forgive him, everyday is like a test. I’ve lost my loving family who care about me, as they want me to leave him. I was pregnant and lost my baby recently, please help me to find an answer…

Betrayed and cheated but i still love him

Im seeking help and advice i been with this guy for 3 1/2 years, we been through so many problems and still together.Our ups and down we stick together but year 2010 month of May I feel something going wrong. I have so many speculation and feeling that he was cheating on me.I found so many hints and so many marks that lead me finding the truth but since i love him so much and we on the process of settling down i just keep those things as nothing and im trying to convinced myself that he still be loyal and honest to me that he will not do such thing to me.

My husband smokes weed and is beating me while I am pregnant

I have been married for 1 year and I am 3 months pregnant. My husband smokes weed everyday, he beats me, calls me names and emotionally abuses me. I know he used to sell weed and now he wants to sell it again but i told him no. I went through his phone today and […]

Affair with muslim woman

I’m a married Hindu man having an affair with a married Muslim woman. I can’t live without her. I am thinking of converting to Islam. But I feel pity for my wife.

I think my husband is being unfaithful

My husband has been very protective about his mobile phone, recently. I overheard him have an intimate conversation with someone.

My wife is having an affair

I am from India. I have completed 17 years of marriage with 2 kids. I love my wife very much. I am working in Middle East. During my vacation I came to know my wife has had illegal relations with another man, she confessed & promised not to repeat it.