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My husband is addicted to Cocaine

Salaam Alkum I am a revert Muslim before I even decided to get married. Anyway I have now been married for 9 years and have three young children. For the last seven years my husband has been addicted to cocaine. I have had to put up with him going out and staying out all night […]

Should I stay in my emotionally abusive marriage for the sake of the children?

I have been married for 14 years and have three children. Our marriage has been breaking down for years. My husband comes from a very different culture. His family are very close knit, they only marry cousins and mix with their own community. They rarely venture out. My husband was the first to marry outside […]

My wife is in a women’s refuge and I need to find her. Can I spy on her?

I have been given contact with our 2 year old through courts. But my main concern is she has changed her clothing to tight jeans and I don’t trust her. She pleads insanity to me when we have spoke. Can I spy on her? I love her dearly but don’t know what to do.

I don’t want to leave my Wife or my Mum

I know it is my challenge to deal with this situation. I have tried for three years to convince my wife to intervene and maybe help resolve the situation; but she tells me that Allah has not put it in her heart to intervene. She is no longer interested to deal with her. She believes that my mum is not genuine and doesn’t want to make things right except for her own selfish reasons. She won’t let my kids see them either. I genuinely believe that my mum hates my dad and so she hates me

Got a non Muslim woman pregnant, do I have to know my child in Islam?

I am a muslim man since I was born alhumdulillah but I went through a rough patch in my life and I caused zinnah with a non muslim woman out of wedlock…

I’m going to meet his family, please pray for me!

As I used to submit my post (http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/pregnancy-living-alone/ ) that I was pregnant from an Omani man; him and his family ignored me completely and my mother was also angry with me and him. Now, alhumdulillah, my mum is good and supporting me in going to meet his family. We already told them all that we are going, […]

Numerous trials, I have been praying for death and feel suicidal.

My life is a total disaster. I have been praying ALLAH for a reconciliation with my ex-husband because I still love him, without success. Now, I am praying for death, and someone to take care of my baby. I am so tired of all these difficulties after all my trials and hardwork.

Trying to conceive after miscarriage

I had married 4  years back.  My wife had a miscarriage once, after that till now we are not blessed with a child.   Are there any special salah to offer or any aayaths or any duwa that can help with this?

I want to re-unite with my husband for my daughter’s sake.

My question to you is if you can tell me any dua or wazeefa which I can read to have him back with both the family approval and he comes and live with me forever” on Allah’s (SWT) will. I am very much stressed at the moment; don’t know what to do kindly help me with the matter and reply me please.

We are both Muslim, but her parents won’t agree for us to marry.

I am Muslim and my girl friend is Muslim. We do practice our deen the best we can. I have been married before and so is she. We both have kids, 2 each. We want to get married but her parents are not having it only because the mother wants her to get married to some other man and the father too. Her last marriage was to a man her father chose for her and it did not work out and she has asked them to let her make her choice this time but it does not sit well with them.