I’m going to meet his family, please pray for me!
As I used to submit my post (http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/pregnancy-living-alone/ ) that I was pregnant from an Omani man; him and his family ignored me completely and my mother was also angry with me and him. Now, alhumdulillah, my mum is good and supporting me in going to meet his family. We already told them all that we are going, but just the same they all ignored it; but everything is already booked so we will go Inshaallah. I hope this post will help other women who are in the same situation with me or are going to fall in love with a Muslim man who betrays Islam by committing zina and influencing innocent woman into it่. So even if they will reject me and my son, I will think we are going just for a trip.
I will keep you updated, Inshaallah.
Warisa
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Good luck have a safe time and insallah Allah be with you and all of us muslim sisters and brothers
Good luck! I hope everything goes good for you! And please do let us know how it all went!
Asalaam alaikum,
Subhan'allah! Not very many people update their situations, but in one like this, wherein so many sisters "give up," it's encouraging to see that other women are willing to go the distance. Admittedly this isn't for every person, it is still admirable to see the woman exhausting her efforts.
My greatest concern however is that the child's safety be the first priority and that the child is kept safe at all times even when it comes to the other family. You never know the temperament of some people in a situation like this, so be sure that everything is safe for you and your child, first and foremost.
Insha'allah, everything will be for the best.
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Aslamualykum everyone
I came back after 1 week in muscat. Unfortunately my story is a sad one.
After I reached muscat I call him. First he asked me what u want by coming here.
I said want to see you so he came. When he first saw his baby his hands were shaking and he breath deeply fast. I don't really know what he feel like. I told him I want him to tell his family that they having grandson here.
Then he shout to my face n my son that 'he is not my son' while the same time our 9months son were smiling to him and open hands for him (my son is a very friendly boy). Then I cry and sit down he walked around me then he left.
The next day I call him again and say him to come talk again as I cry yesterday so don't talk.
He said even he come his answer is same. But he promise to come anyway I was waiting and during that I found out his fathers number in my another mobile so I call. First I talk to his father that I don't think it was any bad I said salam and tell that Father I am married with your son and now I have 9 months old boy wih him.
He said to me its not possible his son came to my country just 1 time for some treatment.
So I said if u don't believe me please check his visa in his passport and u will see how many time he came here.
Then I asked if u can come to meet ur grandson or not just a bless for him.
Then he start to shout to me that u don't know me u both cannot marrying now u have kid you don't tell me go tell Mohamed ( my x) then he shut out mobile on my face. I try calling his sister and his brother too but they ignores me very completely. After that in same day my x call me n said I don't go to see u now fox Bcuz u calls family. He keep calling me fox for touching his family. I cry whole day when my mother were very upset and taking care of baby. He said to me if u want anything go embassy. He said that Bcuz he think I will not go but I went there anyway. I told embassy everything my country embassy helped me very much cuz they called him and told him come to clear the problem so the very next day he came with so many documents in his hands.
All documents are my emails sending to him that how much I love him and want to be with him.
He used those email to tell everyone in embassy that it's me who love him and want him so he doesn't take responsibility for the son . He said in front of every officer that he don't want to do anything with us forever and ever. I fell so ashamed so i said if u don't want to be with us then help me custody the child he said he will pay 3000 omanirial and I have to write down in paper on front of embassy people that I and baby will disappear from his life forever. It was very horrible moment to me 3000 for one life? I told him ask embassy officer that my job can find this money or not I also can find this amount in very short time. He start to insult me and my mother in front of everyone I was really angry so i don't accept that. Then we were fighting throwing those email to each other. People stop us and I said if u don't accept our son then I have to pay harder than this. He denied and tell me if u want anything go to court process then he left embassy. People embassy saw every his action Alhumdullialah they help me contact lawyers and now I have my Omani lawyers and during court process now.
I came back my country with very heartbroken everytime I see my son. Now I have to work hard and paying for lawyers. I am not with my son he's not getting warmth from his father or even me we are very far. He is with my relative in other city I miss him and cry everyday.
I just hope that Allah almighty protects him.
Inshaallah soon I will be back there for court process.
So this is my story please girls out there if u r not muslim now.
Those Muslim man they will not respect u if he don't respect Islam first.
Alhumdullialah I am still survive and try to be strong even it's very had for me.
Takecare everyone and goodbye