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Getting over lost love

My name is Asma. I was born and raised in America and my family is from Pakistan. I attended a muslim school since childhood and have tried my best to stay a good muslim throughout my life. A few years ago one of my male relative told me that he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. I also liked him alot and wanted to marry him as well. We talked on the phone several times and met up a few times over a year ( we did not do anything haraam except for talking and holding hands..)

I kissed my cousin & now he shows interest in other girls

My cousin and i fell in love and we used to be around each other all the time, we even kissed. Ever since he left all my work is going horribly wrong and i think Allah is punishing me for what i did. What should i do? Also although he is a really nice guy but recently he has been showing interest in other girls although he says that they are just friends and the spark in our love is also dying.

Is it allowed in Islam to kiss and share intimate dreams and moments with my fiancee

I was engaged to cousin of mine two years ago. It was arranged. She knew that I was interested in somebody else and since the beginning I tried very hard to make it work.

I let my cousin lay over me when I was 8 years old

I let my cousin to lie over me for 2-3 mins, no intercourse, no kisses, I was not nude either. I really was unaware that this is an evil. I was just stupid didnt even know whether this is good or bad. I later gained that this is not major zina (sexual intercourse) as I was an insane.

Is loving a cousin sister prohibited in Islam?

Dear All, Assalam alaikum, I want to know something which is very important for me. I love my cousin sister and I want to marry her. Is loving cousin sister prohibited in Islam?

My cousin & I desperately want to marry each other, but my family will not agree!

i am in love with my mother’s brother’s son, he also loves me. their whole family knows about me and is ready for our marriage, but my family they dont know about this and they dont like that family at all.

I hugged my cousin, is it a sin?

I hugged my cousin (aunt’s daughter) but not of any wrong intention. Is it a sin?

I love my cousin but she had a previous relationship

About 7 years ago my parents decided that they would marry me with my cousin and they also told her parents but it was just between them and us, i mean it was just verbally. I was happy because i loved her very much and i think she too loved me. But after some time something happened and i came to know that she had a relationship with another person. after that i was too depressed, then i leave all this and was concentrating on my studies but my mother insists me to marry her.