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Tag Archive for ‘Dating’

Regret and guilt are tearing me apart

My self-conscience is killing me everyday… my world has fallen apart..few wrong actions and I am transformed into a disaster.

Blood spots

My girlfriend is facing a problem of blood spots. Is it a serious problem?

Dating a Hindu and Living with a Distressing Past

I have been in a relationship with a Hindu. I love Allah, but I can’t see such an amazing person going to hell.

I am attached to him but don’t want a relationship

I can’t get married to anyone because I’m studying right now. My studies will take 3-4 years to complete. I also don’t want to be in relationship (bf/gf) with anyone because my heart will not be satisfied. When I see my friends having boyfriends or fiancées, I also feel like having someone in my life- not as a partner or boyfriend, but at least as a friend.

How do I tell him I want to end this contact?

That statement of eventually being together in the future doesn’t seem right at all… that’s why I am suggesting we leave all this and leave it all up to Allah swt – he knows best. How do I tell him?

Trapped in my own thoughts

Was it my mistake as I wanted to be in limits… maybe I didn’t give the guy what he wanted? I just hang out with girls, so was not hanging out with this guy the reason he left me?

Would this inter-faith relationship be allowed?

I know that interfaith relationships are allowed between Muslims and Christians, or Muslims and Jews, provided they meet certain requirements, such as being devout. Is an interfaith relationship even allowed if one person is strong in their faith, but it’s a non-abrahamic faith?

She changed my life and madhab… Now she’s left and I want her back

How should I tackle my family when they mock me that I have changed my way of praying because of the girl? And what should I do about my girlfriend? I can’t forget her.

female interested in male, instead of other way around

I’m 16 and I’m interested in this man who is always in the masjid praying, reading Quran, etc. Other than that I don’t know him, and only talk to him when I’m giving salaams etc. He seems like a really nice person, and I would like to know if he is interested in me, too. I […]

Sisters not willing to give my Christian girlfriend a chance

Her parents have seen for the last year that my sisters are unwilling to give her a chance. She feels unwanted from my family. My father has “approved” of her. She has been so hurt for the last year that she is practically over it.