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I feel guilty following my mother’s death

In my opinion I am very bad son, I did not take good care of my mother, but now she is gone… Sometimes I feel that my soul is not there, that is was gone at that day when my mother died.

death better than this life

Sometimes the hope and faith dies and I want to die along with it.

Is there a way out of life? I don’t belong in this world

Living in the wilderness and dying out there..would that be the same as suicide? or does anyone have any duas for death..

My life has become a labyrinth of debt and despair

As much as I want to die, I fear everything death entails. I often find myself questioning my faith. I definitely don’t want Hell but neither do I want Jannah. I only want to escape my useless, dysfunctional life.

To Allah we belong and to HIM we will return.

My father was dedicated to truth. Although he sometimes came across as cynical, I think the truth is that he cared deeply about people and the world. One of my earliest memories as a child was a dinner at our home in which several Arab men were discussing the Israeli-Palestinian situation. My father actually had a heart attack six years ago, just days after Salma was born, and we thought he might die at that time. So I am grateful that he survived to see his granddaughter and get to know her.

I feel so guilty. Am I the cause of my wife’s death?

One fine day my wife was on leave and she also wanted me to take leave. So i lied to my headmaster saying my wife is suffering from fever and she is hospitalised…

I want to be happy again like I used to be.

I want to go back to the person I was (happy, bubbly, ambitious, outgoing and fun). Please brothers and sisters help me regain normalcy. Tomorrow is my birhtday and I would like to start a new year as a happy woman.

Why am I in this world?

We all know that the purpose of life is the total submission to Allah’s WILL. And all those who dont submit to his WILL shall be sent to hell, and the person who submits to his will shall be sent to heaven. Since we believe the fact that Allah has the full knowledge of what will happen till the end of time. Which in turn implies that he knows the people who will go to hell and the people who will go to heaven. Then what is the need for all this life and death?.

Forced Marriage, Family Violence and Threats of Rape

Greetings my brothers and sisters I am new to this site and i feel i have no where else to go to. I am inlove with a girl with all my heart and all my intention towards her is good, but she has been forced marriage without her having a No option. She was Threatend and Harrased by her Aunt on her father side. She only agreed on the marriage because there is a threat on her mother would die if she dose not marry her cousin.

I never got to marry him, can I marry him Hereafter?


I fell in love with a boy 6 years ago. We were really serious about each other but our parents wouldnt allow it and he wasnt independent. He repeatedly asked me to do nikah with him in secret but I refused to go against my parents. My parents married me to someone else and I got divorced after 3 months with out consumating the marriage.