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How do I propose to her?

I love her a lot. Astagfirullah, even more than Allah s.a.w, may Allah forgive me.

Please help me – Suicidal

After my mom made fun of me I got really made and went to my room I was going to cut my self but I could fine my broken glass that I use to cut myself with, so instead I took 3 Tylenol pills.

Now I’m just sitting here thinking I’m gonna kill my self, I’m gonna kill myself. I did plan to commit suicide a few weeks ago but things didn’t work out. I know 3 Tylenol pills is not gonna kill me, but I wish it did.

Suicide?

I have self harmed by cutting and I have hit myself before, and I have planned to commit suicide several times.

Bullying at School

I need help. I’m getting bullied at school.

I want to be respected and honored

want to excel in my life, and another thing I want to is have a very loving husband. But I know all of this is not possible, so I get depressed sometimes and then decide to lead a simple life without expecting all of this, and be happy with what Allah gives me. I need emotional stability, so can you guide me what I should do?

Losing hope whilst going through a divorce

I pray that He will give me something better to replace what I have lost, but in this midst of sadness I cannot see through the clouds. I am afraid that it is not in my qadr to marry and have children and a family of my own. I am in my 30’s and I suspect that I have lost that chance, and this is the one thing in life which my heart desires.

My abusive father is coming back

I have a problem, and that is my father is coming back. He has been at his country for like four months now, and he’s coming back. I don’t want him to come back. I don’t know what to do, my mother doesn’t listen to me. Why does she call me a liar? And why does my father have to come back? I was just starting to remember what normal feel like, what living a normal life is like, and to have no problems.

Sad, frustated, astonished and sometimes hopeless. Where is my life?

Something inside me is torturing me saying,’You are not so good looking as Non muslims, who have fair white skin, and they all have pretty girls and they are also admired by girls for their muscles, and attractiveness. Allah maybe doesn’t love you. In fact, He doesn’t help you in your everyday struggle to be without someone to love. Watch how they enjoy sex, live fullfilled lives, get good positions at job, and look how they are enthusiastic about life.They get everything because they are good, and maybe you’re not so good’.

Depressed and anxious during my pregnancy

I’m pregnant, and during the last month I have been going through very bad depression and anxiety. I’m about to give birth to my baby soon in shaa Allah, but I’m feeling scared.

Emotional abuse, contemplation of suicide

Is moving out the right option because I am saving my life? My family won’t change and won’t accept me- I already know that. Please brothers and sisters, advise me if I am doing the right thing, because I will marry this girl insh’Allah. If I could, I would right now. But the abuse my family is giving me is such a difficult thing to cope with, I don’t know how much more I can take.